If there are scumbag men, there will naturally be scumbag women. However, compared with scumbag men, the "scumbag" of scumbag women is more subtle and harder to detect. Many boys may have become like a scumbag's cash machine and a spare tire, but they haven't noticed it yet. If you don’t want to be hurt by a scumbag, then use the following things to test whether you are a spare tire.

1. Have you ever paid for you?

The reason why a woman will take advantage of you The fundamental purpose of being a spare tire is to get value from you. In this process, she will not give anything, so she will naturally try her best to ask for it from you. Either when she is sad, she will ask you to chat with her all night, or when she has no money, she will hint you to send her a red envelope and transfer money.

Of course, some people may say that when I pursue a girl, I must also pay. This is why you need to test her to see if she is reserved and wants to test you, or if she really uses you as a backup. You can ask her for some appropriate requests

For example, if you are in a bad mood and want her to go out with you, if she readily agrees, it means that she does not just want to take advantage of you. If she refuses in every possible way and tells lies, it means she doesn't care about you at all.

2. Have you seen her friends?

Of course there are high-ranking scumbags, In order to stabilize his spare tire, he will occasionally make sacrifices, and he will even take the initiative to establish a relationship, and even post it on Moments.

But as for this circle of friends, it is either only visible to you, or it is deleted after sending a screenshot for one minute. In short, in her circle of friends, she is always single.

So once you ask to meet her friends and family, she will find various excuses to deal with you. Either they say that their friend is unavailable, or that it is still early and they want to wait until they are stable before considering meeting.

Otherwise, she will pretend to be angry and ask you if you don’t trust her. Once the label of lack of trust is put down, she will become the unreasonable party, and you will have to pay more to make her happy.

3. Do you know her whereabouts?

If a woman treats you as a backup, then she usually The communication between you will only start when she contacts you, and when you want to find her, you will not be able to find her in time.

After all, if she can find you as a spare tire, she can naturally find someone else as a spare tire. And she doesn't have deep feelings for you, so as long as she feels that she can't find anything new in you, she may switch to another one.

But she won’t give up on you directly. After all, having one more person treat her well can also satisfy her vanity.

So every time you can’t findWhen you ask her for an explanation, she will tell you pitifully that she has something to do at home, or is too busy at work, and is on a business trip. She may seem sincere, but in fact she is full of loopholes.

I just want to use my tears to make you stop asking.

In fact, if you don’t want a woman to treat you as a spare tire, you must follow two principles, pay appropriately, and stop losses in time. Moderate giving is not about calculating who pays more and who pays less. It's about making your efforts worthwhile. After all, things that are obtained too easily are often not cherished by others. To stop losses in time is to ensure that your feelings are not hurt. Do you understand?