Many times, it may be fruitless for boys to pursue girls, and they may also be explicitly rejected by girls, saying "Don't come to me again" or "We are not suitable". In this case, some boys may give up. But some boys really don't want to give up the pursuit and want to continue pursuing. Does the girl pursue you after she clearly refuses? All I can say is that it depends on the girl’s attitude towards you.
1. Girls dislike you
If a girl clearly rejects you because she dislikes you for being fat, because she dislikes you for wearing a low-class style, or because she dislikes you for speaking straight... these are all acceptable. changed. In this case, you can still pursue it, but what's more important is whether you can work towards what she likes.
@ Daiguagua: My boyfriend has been chasing me for a year and a half. He used to be very fat, weighing 180 or 180 pounds. I have never been with a fatter person (no discrimination, just personal preference), but he is very cute, but I still can't get over that hurdle in my heart. I made it clear from the beginning that I refused. We have been classmates for a year and a half. After rejecting him, we basically stayed away from each other for the rest of our lives. But he never gave up. He is the kind of person who moisturizes things quietly and appears when needed. Don't make any noise unless necessary. As a result, he lost weight after entering the police academy. We met during the holidays and found he was not bad. I was actually very happy to see him. I agreed to him soon after and we have been together for a year and a half now~ (although he has gained weight now) But it seems too late to break up (hehe)~
2. Girls haven’t thought about it yet
Yes Many girls don't think clearly when faced with a boy's pursuit. They don't know whether to accept your pursuit, and they don't calm down to consider whether you are suitable. They just reject you out of a self-protection mechanism. In fact, for this kind of girl, she doesn't know what kind of relationship she needs, nor what type of boy is suitable for her. If she still wants to pursue her, then just wait for her quietly where she is and remain peaceful. As for her contact, when she thinks about it clearly, she will take the initiative to contact you.
3. Girls reject it completely
In fact, Li is most taboo about ambiguity in relationships. If it delays herself, she will also delay herself. For others, the most important thing for two people to be together is to be happy. How can they be happy? It means two people walking in the direction of happiness together. If one person is always walking and the other is chasing, what do you think everyone has gained? Moreover, youth is not eternal. Young people have more responsibilities and obligations. What have you done about these? Only a charming person will be loved, or can be a chooser, instead of being rejected and chosen by others all the time. The girl's performance has clearly illustrated this. Give up meaningless pursuits and achieve better results. If you love yourself, marriage will come naturally. Such girls usually have a character that dares to love and hate. As long as she says noIf not, then turn around and leave!
So, take a look at the girl’s attitude towards you, and then decide whether you will pursue her even if she clearly refuses! I can only say that if you meet a girl like this, she is unwilling to hang on to you and is willing to tell you directly. In fact, this is the greatest respect for you. I suggest that boys should also be able to take things up and let them go.
