In fact, many men and women never thought about starting a long-distance relationship at the beginning, but practical reasons forced them to do so. Now that you have started a relationship, you want to keep it going for a long time, but many long-distance couples may get separated in the process. Below, the editor will share with you how to maintain a long-distance relationship and make it successful.
1. Have the intention to end the long-distance relationship
The most basic condition for a long-distance relationship to be successful is to go in both directions. If this cannot be achieved, you must not start a long-distance relationship. love.
What is the concept of two-way love? You love her very much, and she loves you very much, equally loving and giving, instead of one party being loved but not being pampered, and the other party not being able to get it, causing turmoil. You must be honest with yourself about this. Don't lie to yourself, otherwise you will get hurt or you will hurt her. Then you say that you both love each other deeply, so you cannot start a long-distance relationship. Because you love each other deeply, it is contradictory to a long-distance relationship. If you want deep love for a long time but cannot get it, someone will definitely suffer after a long time. No, those who can survive a long-distance relationship are those who love each other equally, but are not so deeply in love. Deep love is sweet when they are together, but it is torture when they are in a long-distance relationship.
2. Consider time and distance in long-distance relationships
Long-distance relationships must consider time and distance factors. If If it's one year, that's fine. If it's two years, it's OK. If it's more than this, you'll be asked to leave. If it's a foreign love, it can only last for one year at most. If you go out for two years, don't worry about it. If you are far apart, it is best to keep meeting every week or at least once every two weeks, otherwise you will be asked to quit. This is very important. Don't tell me how deep your relationship is but you can still contact each other every day.
The key mistake is that no matter how you contact each other, the relationship will remain estranged. If you contact each other every day, you will get tired of each other. At first, you and I may be eager to call each other. It is fatal to call each other every day. It may even happen because you are late for the call today or because you are busy and don’t have enough time to chat. If a problem arises, if you speak it out, it will be a quarrel. If you don't speak it out, it will be accumulated disappointment.
Since contacting you every day will make you tired and annoying, it is better to contact you when you think about it, and just follow the natural state and follow your heart. , usually disappears as time passes. This is very strange. If you don’t understand, just look at how many old friends you have lost contact with in your list. The most fatal thing is that friendship is allowed to fade, but love will always fade away. One party didn't want it to fade away, so the conflict started again.
The above is still a problem between the two of you, and it does not include whether there will be any complications outside of your relationship. It's not that the feelings are not firm enough, but that people have a terrible psychology, which is, as the saying goes, to brush their faces. When someone of the opposite sex often appears next to the other personWhen you do something, you will naturally close the distance between the other person and the opposite sex. Specifically, for example, when encountering key things, the person you can directly think of must be the people around you, not you. There is also a saying that is good, distant relatives Not as good as close neighbors, same reason. Relationships can be loyal, but it does not exclude them from becoming good friends of the opposite sex, nor does it exclude you from having contact with friends of the opposite sex. Once there are other members of the opposite sex involved in the relationship, then your problems will naturally arise, and it will not lead to cheating. step.
The above-mentioned things are inevitable. You cannot control time, distance, and the operation of society. Moreover, it The rule of thumb is that when you hold down a problem, a new one will be created. Is long-distance relationship definitely impossible? No, the results mentioned above all have a degree. The degree of love, the length of time and distance are all the rubber bands of your relationship. It can hold up for a while, but it will not last forever. Love is deep, short-distance, close, and naturally endures. You and I are both ordinary people and don’t believe in evil. But if you would rather have Zeng Jin, then continue to love. In the end, both of you may be completely injured. It makes sense that many people in long-distance relationships don’t want to have long-distance relationships.
How to maintain a long-distance relationship? The above problems have been listed for you. As for whether they can be solved, it depends on how you do it in real life.
