Fighting is an inevitable problem that couples will encounter, and during the quarrel, we often say some annoying things. These words may be out of anger, helplessness or irrationality, but they often cause harm and pain to the other party. So, what are the most annoying things to say when you have an argument with your girlfriend?
1. Belittle the other person’s ability and value
When we are in a dispute, it is easy to lose our minds and start attacking the other person’s ability and value. We may say: "You are a waste!", "You can't do anything well!" and so on. Such words are undoubtedly a serious blow to the other person's self-esteem, making her feel belittled and unappreciated.
On the contrary, we should respect the other person's efforts and efforts and encourage her to continue to improve. Even in an argument, you must control your words to avoid hurting the other person.
2. Blaming the other person’s family and background
In the middle of a heated argument, we may inadvertently mention the other person’s family and background to attack her. For example: "There is a problem with your family's education!", "Your family is a chaotic place!" and so on.
Such words will not only make the other party feel insulted and sad, but may also lead to greater quarrels and conflicts. We should understand that everyone has their own family and background, which does not represent their value and ability.
3. Questioning the other person’s loyalty and true feelings
When we feel hurt and disappointed in an argument, it’s easy to question the other person’s loyalty and true feelings. We might say: "You don't love me at all!", "You've been lying to me!", etc.
Such words are undoubtedly a serious blow to the other party's trust, making her feel questioned and left out. On the contrary, we should use a rational and calm attitude to solve problems instead of hurting each other with emotional words.
4. Threatening to break up or leave
In a heated argument, we may threaten to break up or leave. Leave each other alone. We may say: "I never want to see you again!", "Let's break up!", etc.
Such words will not only make the other party feel fearful and desperate, but may also destroy trust and stability between each other. We should learn to solve problems in a rational and mature way instead of using threats to escape reality.
5. Hurt the other person’s family and friends
During an argument, we may hurt the other person’s family and friends by unconsciously attacking them. For example: "Your parents are losers!", "Your friends are all fools!" and so on.
Such words will not only make the other party feel insulted and angry, but may also lead to greater quarrels and conflicts. We should respect each other's family and friends, andAvoid drawing them into our squabbles.
When quarreling with our girlfriends, we should stay calm and rational and avoid saying angry words. On the contrary, we should use a rational and mature attitude to solve problems, respect each other's feelings, and work hard to improve our communication methods. Only in this way can we establish a healthy and stable love relationship.
