Fighting with your partner is an inevitable part of a relationship, but as boyfriends, we should learn how to coax our girlfriends, resolve conflicts, and maintain relationships. Some suggestions will be given below from several aspects.
1. Calm down
When you find yourself in an argument with your girlfriend, the first thing to do is to calm down. Getting emotional will only make things worse. Find a quiet place to sit down, take a few deep breaths, and calm yourself down.
2. Listen to her thoughts
After calming down, the important step is to listen to her thoughts . Don't interrupt her or try to argue. Just listen quietly to her perspective and feelings. Doing this will make her feel respected and understood.
3. Express apology
After you understand her position, it is very important to express apology. No matter what the reason for the argument was, apologize to her. Even if you think you're not at fault, say, "I'm sorry we got into an argument and I didn't want our relationship to be hurt." Such an apology can ease tensions.
4. Give time and space
Sometimes, your girlfriend may need some time and space to calm down. Respect her feelings and give her some alone time. This doesn't mean you have to leave her completely, but it does mean giving her some private space to think and calm down.
5. Come up with solutions
When both parties have calmed down, you can come up with some solutions. Instead of complaining about problems, focus on finding solutions. Ask her what she thinks about the problem and discuss how to improve the situation. Doing so can enhance cooperation and trust between each other.
6. Prove it with actions
Finally, use actions to prove your sincerity. Commit to correcting mistakes and act on them. Show her you care and love her through positive actions. For example, help her with some chores or prepare a romantic dinner for her. Such an action will make her feel valued and cherished.
When you argue with your girlfriend, calm down, listen to her, apologize, give her time and space, propose a solution, and use actions to prove your sincerity. Doing this can help you resolve conflicts and maintain relationships.
