Husband and wife are lovers and enemies. When they love, they are deeply affectionate, but when they hate, they never interact with each other until death.

Most couples turn from lovers to enemies. When they first enter the marriage, there is love and passion, and they only see the good of each other. After a few years of marriage, the love fades and the passion disappears. I started to realize that the other person was not perfect.

If the following situations occur in your marriage, you must solve the problem of emotional breakdown as soon as possible, otherwise divorce will only be a matter of time.

1. When two people have conflicts, they always reason and hope to convince each other, just like talking about work with colleagues. There is no emotion at all. In fact, couples are used to being unreasonable. Compromise and tolerance are the ways for couples to get along;

2. There is no trust and honesty between each other, and they become suspicious of each other, conceal each other, and deceive each other. Without the normality of life, such a marriage cannot last;

3. Only if you can’t get along well with the other person’s family can you run a good marriage. If you can’t get into the other person’s family, conflicts can only be with you all the time. ;

4. In marriage, sex and love are separated or neither is present. Such couples are not happy at all. Full of dullness and boredom, the marriage has entered a crisis and the relationship has already broken down;

5. One of the spouses always regards money as everything in life, and starts to complain when they have no money, but they themselves Not willing to work hard. In fact, money is a necessity, but it is not the key to the quality of marriage. Talking about money really hurts feelings;

6. One party cheats or both parties cheat, which means there is no responsibility for the marriage at all. There is no happiness left for couples who are together;

7. There are no such couples anymore who are always clamoring for divorce, even in front of their relatives without any scruples, and look like they can’t live together. If there is no divorce, it is just a delay;

8. If domestic violence or cold violence occurs, the sooner you divorce this kind of marriage, the better ;

　9. They quarrel at every turn. It seems that two people are struggling with all kinds of hardships together and cannot stand each other for a minute.

10. There is nothing to say between the husband and wife. The two of them are like residents living in a shared house. They are strangers to each other, let alone have any emotional communication.

Although marriage is not a child's play, you can't really find a trace of happiness in marriage, and there is no need to struggle hard. Sometimes letting go will make you happier. Of course, the cost of divorce is very high, and you have to find ways to repair it as a last resort. After all, the original couple is the most compatible.