If a relationship between husband and wife wants to be long-term and stable, the most important thing is communication. However, there are often many couples who do not know how to communicate and let communication develop into quarrels. How do couples communicate emotions? How to communicate and exchange feelings to be more harmonious?

How to communicate feelings between husband and wife?

1. Don’t make any suggestions

Especially men, it is easy to make suggestions in order to draw conclusions: "In this case, why don't you just be ○○?" In fact, women chat She just wants someone to listen to her, not to seek conclusions or suggestions, so don't give random suggestions. Providing advice can sometimes make people feel offended, as it feels like a "superior to subordinate attitude". Even if you really want to say something, you have to hold back and just say "that's it", "I understand" and other echoing words. .

2. Don’t interrupt the other party’s speech

When the other party is speaking, don’t interrupt casually, listen to the other party first, because there is a rhythm in the speech, and when the other party is speaking, he will rise. , but was suddenly interrupted, or asked a very perfunctory question, it would make the other person cool down instantly, so even if you just want to be a echoer, you must pay attention to the other person's mood when speaking, and don't interrupt casually: How to reply? Things?

3. Don’t think about other things

In other words, when the other party is talking, You must listen attentively.

This means that you need to concentrate during the conversation. Because when

When the other person speaks with great interest, most listeners will feel lonely and bored. At this time, if you look at your mobile phone or watch TV, this kind of behavior that looks very "absent-minded" must not occur. Even if you think "I'm so hungry" or "I've been talking for a long time", don't do what you want to do. Because the other party will definitely find out that you are actually "pretending to listen to me".

If couples want to have a more harmonious relationship, they must remember that taking a little time to communicate and chat every day can soothe their emotions and deepen their understanding of each other.

In addition to the above three tips, there is another very important point: after the husband comes home, he must listen to his wife.

Many men just want to relax and have a good rest after working for a day, and rarely listen to their wives. Whenever their wives speak, they feel that they are nagging, and they will say: I am very tired from work today. Come and say no.

Why not, change your mind and think about it. If you are in a company and your boss talks to you, do you dare to say: I am very tired now and I don’t want to listen. Therefore, in the marriage company, you must also remember that listening to your wife "speak" is also very important.

Especially since my wife is a stay-at-home mother, she is probably only able to chat.It's you. When you come home from get off work, she will think, the person I can chat with is finally back, and she will be in a good mood. So, thinking about this scene, even if your wife is nagging you, at least listen to her.

In fact, women not only hope that the other party can resonate with what they say, even if they don’t understand what the husband said and feel bored, or If the husband is complaining about his work, his wife will be willing to listen.

If the husband doesn’t say anything, the wife will take the initiative to ask: “How are you doing today?” Even if it’s not interesting to boast, the wife will show sympathy and even praise him. As long as he knows that his wife will praise him, a man will talk more at home.

If you find it a bit troublesome to listen to each other’s words, why not “go have a drink together”? Many couples like to have a drink together and have a very good relationship with each other. Regardless of how they felt about each other's conversation, the glass of wine in their hands had indeed become the best bridge to communicate with each other.

Husbands and wives chat about what happened today, how they feel, etc. These miscellaneous conversations may not have any great significance, but they are the secret to deepening mutual understanding. Setting aside a little time every day to communicate with each other is essential to building a better relationship as a couple.