Fighting is an inevitable problem that couples will encounter. When your girlfriend is in a cold war, she may show some specific behaviors and emotions. It will be described in detail from several aspects below.
1. Silence
When your girlfriend is angry, she may choose to remain silent. She no longer takes the initiative to communicate with you, responds briefly to your questions, and may even ignore you entirely. This silent attitude shows her dissatisfaction and disappointment with you.
In this case, you can try to actively communicate with her, care about her feelings, and apologize to explain your point of view . But be careful not to force or disturb her too much, and give her some time and space to calm down.
2. Cold and distant
During the Cold War, girlfriends may become cold and distant. She may no longer care about your affairs and no longer take the initiative to care about your life and work. She may close herself off and be unwilling to share her inner thoughts and feelings with you.
In this case, you can try to take the initiative to care about her life and give her some warmth and care. Try doing some relaxing activities with her, such as watching a movie, going for a walk, or cooking together. Through these small gestures, you can gradually restore intimacy to each other.
3. Mood swings
A cold war girlfriend may exhibit mood swings. She may lose her temper suddenly, yell at you or be unreasonable. This is because her inner dissatisfaction and anger have accumulated to a critical point.
In this situation, you need to stay calm and try to understand her emotions. Don't argue or fight back with her, but listen patiently to her complaints and dissatisfaction. Try to avoid intensifying conflicts and find ways to solve problems.
4. Seek support
Sometimes, a cold war girlfriend may seek support from the outside world. She may express her grievances and dissatisfaction to friends, family, or others. This is because she wants the approval and support of others.
In this case, you can try to actively communicate with her friends or family to understand her true feelings, and express to them your apology and determination to change. This way you can gain more understanding and support.
5. Seek solitude
Sometimes, a cold war girlfriend may choose to be alone to think about problems. She may leave you for a while to go to a quiet place to calm down. This is because she needs time to sort out her emotions and thoughts.
In this case, you should respect her choice and give her enough space. Don't ask too much or disturb her, let her have enough time to calm down her inner fluctuations.
When a girlfriend is cold, she may exhibit behaviors such as being taciturn, cold and distant, having mood swings, seeking support, and seeking solitude. As a boyfriend, you should respect her feelings, care about her emotions, and work hard to improve the relationship between them.
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