The Chinese New Year is a time for family reunions, but sometimes quarrels may arise over trivial matters. If you and your girlfriend are having an argument during the Chinese New Year, here are some suggestions to help you handle the situation.

1. Calm down

When an argument starts, the first thing to do is to stay calm. Don't let your emotions control your actions and words. Take a few deep breaths and try to relax. This will prevent further escalation of emotions and allow you to think better about the problem.

2. Listen to each other

In a dispute, both parties have their own opinions and feelings. It is important to listen to the other person’s opinions and ideas. Give the other person enough space to express their emotions and opinions without interrupting or criticizing them. By listening, you can better understand the other person's position and find ways to solve the problem.

3. Express yourself

After listening to the other person, it is your turn to express your opinion. But pay attention to approach and tone. Use gentle, respectful language to express your feelings and needs. Avoid blaming or attacking the other person and instead focus on ways to solve the problem.

4. Find common ground

In a quarrel, it is easy to fall into opposition. But remember, you and your girlfriend are partners spending this special moment together. Finding common ground can help you reconnect. Reminisce about the fond memories you shared or find a common goal to solve a problem.

5. Find a solution

The purpose of an argument is not to win, but to solve the problem. Explore possible solutions with your girlfriend and try to reach a consensus. If necessary, compromise on small things to preserve the relationship.

6. Learn to apologize

If you find that you have done something wrong in an argument, it is very important to learn to apologize. Admit your mistake and apologize to your girlfriend, expressing your regret and willingness to make things right. This can ease tensions and build trust between you.

7. Seek outside help

If the argument continues for a long time, or you are unable to find a solution to the problem, consider seeking outside help. You can seek advice and support from friends and family, a counselor, or a relationship expert. They may be able to give you some advice to help you regain harmony in your relationship.

It is common to have arguments during the Chinese New Year, but how you handle the situation depends on your attitude and behavior. By staying calm, listening to each other, expressing yourself, finding common ground, finding solutions, learning to apologize, and seeking outside help, you can better handle arguments with your girlfriend and make your relationship stronger.