Before I start the article, I want to ask you a question. In your opinion, what is a marriage without love? Will it last for a long time? You can tell me your views first. Today I will first share my own views on this issue. If you don’t like it, don’t criticize it.

In my opinion, a marriage without love is suffocating.

Marriage without love is the product of two people who have no "ability to love" and "live together because of interests." It is difficult to get along with each other full of love, to grow together mentally in getting along, and even more difficult to get along with each other. Get a healthy physical and mental experience.

Marriage is a system in which division of labor and cooperation coexist.

Both husband and wife need to be full of willingness to "cooperate with others" (rather than being mentally naive "giant children" looking for objects to vent their emotions), know how to dedicate and care, and make efforts for each other's mental growth.

A good marriage can provide better nourishment for the souls of both parties. The couple learns the true "ability to love", respects each other's existence as a "real individual", and experiences mature attachment and love. Together, they also have the ability to be independent, and dare to take the risk of separation peacefully.

For people who can’t swim, it’s no use changing swimming pools, and for people who don’t know how to love, it’s hard to get along with them no matter how they change their partners.

"Security", "love" and "connection with others" are the basic needs of human beings.

If a person has not learned unconditional self-love, self-esteem, and self-confidence in his or her growth experience, a person with inner scarcity will also show disorder, aggression, and strong desire to control in intimate relationships. This is not true. Conducive to each other's physical and mental health and growth.

Therefore, marriage is a process in which two people become life partners because of "love". Without the "ability to love", a marriage that relies on the binding of interests is destined to be a tragic cycle.