Marriage requires hard work and maintenance to last for a long time, but the so-called maintenance does not require you to pay unilaterally. Otherwise, it will easily turn your love into a washing machine-like love. At the beginning, it will pester you and surround you. You turn around, squeeze you dry, and finally throw you aside and hang you up... The most terrifying thing about a washing machine-style love is not how much you paid for her, but that she will leave immediately after your energy is exhausted. you.

Therefore, if you want to maintain a long-term marriage and avoid washing machine love, you must learn how to find a balance point when giving to the other party. So what should you do specifically?

1. Keep it fresh

You can do something meaningful with her in this way.

For example:

I have a female friend whose boyfriend is in finance. They will go to the bank to open a savings account as their wedding fund.

Although her best friend’s money only accounts for a small part of the wedding fund, she feels that every time she deposits money into this account, she feels that she is investing in her relationship, and investment naturally pays attention to returns. , best friends feel that the return from the fund is the joy and happiness on their wedding day.

I want to say that her boyfriend is quite smart. In fact, every time a girl pays for you, she will become more dependent on you. You will also value your relationship more. The most important thing is to make her believe that there will be a future with you by doing something with her.

Of course, you can also work with her to develop a hobby that you both like but have never been exposed to. It can be dance, music, baking or pottery.

I have to admit a fact:

Emotions are not everything for a man. You also have career, studies, games, brothers and your own hobbies. Emotions are only a part of your life.

2. Maintain a diverse sense of role

In other words, when you act like a baby, you are like a father and a little daughter. We are like lovers when we flirt, and we are like each other’s comrades when we work...

For example, when your girlfriend is acting coquettishly with you, what she wants is your tenderness and touch. You can hold her and caress her. Say some intimate dirty talk.

For example, baby, you are so cute when you act coquettishly. I like this moment so much. It would be great if time could stay at this moment forever.

At this time, she will definitely bury her head in your arms. At this time, you can kiss her and touch her.

When she is dealing with work, all you have to do is stay with her and encourage her. If you can give her some specific methods, she will definitely love you to death..

At the same time, you can also ask her to do something for you, comfort you when you are busy at work, and expose your difficulties appropriately, instead of always choosing to carry all the difficulties in life alone. After all, a good relationship requires both of you to work together.