Quarrels are inevitable between lovers. When boyfriends and girlfriends quarrel, they will say some words to express their emotions and opinions. The following is a story about what a boyfriend and girlfriend said when they just had a fight.

1. The cause of the quarrel

The boyfriend and his girlfriend started quarreling over a small matter. They originally planned to go to the movies together, but the boyfriend changed his mind temporarily because of his busy work and wanted to postpone the date. The girlfriend felt disappointed and dissatisfied with this and believed that her boyfriend did not respect her feelings.

2. Girlfriend’s complaint

My girlfriend said emotionally: “You are always like this and never consider my feelings! The agreement between us is so unfair to you. Is it important? I'm really disappointed!" There was a hint of grievance and sadness in her voice.

3. Boyfriend’s explanation

The boyfriend tried to explain his behavior: “I know I changed my plan, but the work was really urgent and I had to work overtime to complete the task. I didn’t I deliberately disrespect you, but the situation does not allow me to act according to the original plan." There was a hint of helplessness and apology in his tone.

4. Mutual venting of emotions

My girlfriend felt ignored and unimportant. She continued to complain: “You always put work first and never have time to spend with me. . When we are together, you will be distracted by work. I am really tired!" There was a hint of frustration and helplessness in her voice.

My boyfriend also felt aggrieved. He responded: "I know I work too much, but that doesn't mean I don't love you. I work hard to give us a better future. Please understand me." "We need to work together to realize our dreams." There was a hint of determination and expectation in his tone.

5. Seek compromise and solution

After some arguing and emotional catharsis, they began to calm down and try to find a compromise solution. My girlfriend suggested: "Since you are so busy at work, we can try to adjust the date and find a time period that suits the two of us." There was a hint of compromise and understanding in her voice.

My boyfriend also agreed: "I understand how you feel. We can try to communicate better and find a balance point. I will try my best to make time for you, and I hope you can support my work. ” There was a hint of willingness to compromise and change in his tone.

6. Reconciliation and Apology

Eventually, they reached a consensus and apologized to each other. The girlfriend said: "I'm sorry, I may have gone too far. I know you are working hard for our future, and I will understand and support you more." There was a hint of apology and tenderness in her voice.

The boyfriend also apologized: "I also want to apologize to you. I didn't take your feelings into consideration. We should communicate better and solve the problem together." His tone revealedShow a trace of sincerity and regret.

7. Re-establish trust

After the quarrel, they re-established the basis of trust and mutual understanding. They decide to work together and learn to better handle each other's emotions and needs in order to build a healthy, stable relationship.

Fighting is a common phenomenon between couples, but solving problems through rational communication and compromise can help them understand each other better and build a stronger emotional foundation.