Someone gave a vivid description of his wife’s cheating. Although the words are rough, the truth is really in place. A cheating wife is like money dropped on shit. It's a pity if you don't pick it up, but it's disgusting if you pick it up. So what should you do if your wife cheats? Whether your wife cheats on you tacitly or if you understand the agreement, if you think that it will not affect each other's family and continue to love each other, you are deceiving yourself.
1. Treat it rationally and not be impulsive
In a marriage, if a woman cheats, whether it is because the man has no sense of responsibility and leads a careless life, which makes the woman despair. It was also caused by the man who broke her heart too much. Once a woman touches the bottom line of marriage, which is cheating, most men will become furious and cannot forgive the woman for her betrayal and disloyalty to the marriage. Because this cuckold directly causes a man to lose his dignity in front of his relatives and friends, and the impact and damage to the man is too great.
In real life, many women basically end up getting divorced after their husbands discover their cheating. What's more, they use reckless force to solve problems, and end up doing things that are reasonable and beneficial into bloodshed, and they also involve themselves in it for the rest of their lives.
2. Understand the reasons for your wife’s cheating
Heartache cannot be greater than husband-wife love, and sweetness cannot be greater than husband-wife love. My wife has cheated on me. I think we should deal with it from the following aspects:
1. Investigate in private to confirm that my wife is not being coerced. If she is, find the adulterer and give him a warning as soon as possible. , if you can't stop it, go directly to the adulterer's unit leader or the adulterer's wife to figure it out.
2. After investigation and evidence collection, if your wife fails to live up to your expectations and cuckolds you, then you should reflect on it and correct the mistake, strive for your wife's forgiveness, and let your wife no longer be disappointed. Do you forgive your wife regardless of past grievances, live a good life with her, or divorce her? This is a question of your material conditions and personal standards. No one can give you a standard answer.
3. If they are in love with each other, then examine your own reasons. Why is she looking for someone else? The key to forgiveness or not is that regardless of her identity as a lover, she is still your relative. Is she good to her family, children, and parents? If she is good, then give her a chance and try to save her. If you can't persuade her to stay, just be generous and let her go. You keep her person, but you can't keep her heart. Besides, the purpose of her cheating is to leave you. What are you trying to do? It only means that you are not her type, you are not the person she loves, you are not good enough, you do not have the ability to attract her, you are really too Bad.
3. Come out slowly
Don’t punish yourself for your wife’s mistakes, let alone be heartbroken Do something drastic. No matter how sad you are, you must first let yourself go backEat three meals a day and sleep normally, slowly adjust your mood, calmly arrange your family life, and then review the status of your marriage. It’s best if you can check for leaks and fill in the gaps. It’s okay if you really can’t accept divorce. Try to maximize the benefits of divorce and get together and break up easily. . After the divorce, give yourself a cooling-off period, which can be one to three years. During this period, try not to give up your job, try to associate with people (friends) with positive energy, and just come out slowly. This process is like having a disease that requires surgical treatment. It may be better or worse. Try not to die before going to the hospital for consultation. Don't punish yourself because something happens. Men, what do you think?
As a man, according to the current situation, marrying a wife requires a lot of manpower and financial resources. For most people, Said it was a huge expense. Now that you are married, cherish each other, tolerate each other, care for each other with all your heart, and make the other party determined to stay with you for life. You will not have to deal with these problems if your wife cheats.
