Marriage is easy to make but not easy to keep. Marriage is not a child’s play. After all, marriage involves too many things. So what should you do to make your marriage happier? Let’s take a look at 3 secrets to make your marriage happy.

1. Money is your strength

Poor and lowly couples suffer from everything, and many couples either When couples quarrel, most people do it because of money.

Although money is not the most important criterion for finding a partner, money is not needed for daily necessities and trivial matters in life.

Marriage is a powerful alliance, not poverty alleviation.

Whether before or after marriage, you must give yourself the ability to make money.

Don’t give up the opportunity to work easily. Being financially independent and not asking others for money is your confidence.

2. Character is more important than anything else

I saw this news a few days ago:

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The groom and the bride got married, but the bride ran away with hundreds of thousands of gifts on the same day.

The man still regrets why he didn't see her face clearly earlier and didn't pay attention to her whereabouts.

Nowadays, when choosing a partner, many people put appearance, money, and material things first, but ignore the importance of character.

A person’s character determines her best attitude and worst behavior towards you.

Just like some people will never do something that hurts others.

In "Know or Not", Minglan said something to her grandmother: Staying with others ultimately relies on the lowest point, the lowest point of character. See if you can bear it at the lowest point.

The Sun Xiucai whom Shulan married was shameless at the lowest level, while He Hongwen was soft-hearted at the lowest level.

After spending decades with someone, you still have to look at the lowest point, whether you can endure it or not, and what is the worst this person can do to you.

Sometimes choice is greater than effort, and a right person is more important than how to manage a relationship carefully.

3. Relationships need to be cherished

Nowadays, the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, and flash marriages and flash divorces have become A trend among those born in the 80s and 90s.

Many people do not regard feelings as a very important thing and treat marriage with a perfunctory attitude.

Some people say that no matter how perfect a marriage is, there will be 100 impulses to strangle each other to death and 50 impulses to divorce.

After many people quarrel, they often see what the other person wants to eat on the way out of the house, and then get relieved again when they get home and see that smiling face.

A good relationship is about cherishing each other, tolerating and understanding each other.

There are no couples in the world who don’t quarrel. A good relationship will never break up no matter what.

Sometimes an apology acknowledging a mistake may seem like an admission of weakness, but in fact it is a cherishment of the relationship.

There is a segment in "Wife's Romantic Travel" that impressed me deeply. The host asked several husbands who usually apologized and reconciled first when they had quarreled with their significant other in life.

Chen Xiaochun said that after so many years of marriage, Cai'er Ying has the final say in basically everything at home. He is also the first to give up when quarreling, as long as his wife is happy.

Ying Caier said that neither of us can quarrel. Every time there is a sign of a quarrel, Jordan Chan will say sorry!

There is a classic line in the TV series "Reply 1988" :

　"A person truly becomes strong not when he protects his self-esteem, but when he puts aside his self-esteem."

　Those who compromise first are not too timid, but know how to cherish.