Quarrels are inevitable between lovers, and sometimes we quarrel over trivial matters. In this case, the girlfriend may say "what do you want", how should we respond at this time?
1. Calm down
When our girlfriend says this, the first thing we need to do is calm down. Don't be swayed by her emotions and don't respond immediately. Calming down can help us think better and avoid impulsive behavior.
2. Listen to her opinion
After calming down, we should listen to our girlfriend's opinion. She may have said this because she felt ignored or not understood. By listening to her, we can better understand her thoughts and feelings and thus find solutions to her problems.
3. Express your own opinions
After listening to your girlfriend’s opinions, we should also express our own opinions. However, pay attention to your tone and manner of expression. Don't respond to her with offensive words, but express your point of view in a rational and peaceful manner. This will avoid further inflaming the argument.
4. Find ways to solve the problem
After expressing our opinions, we should work with our girlfriends to find ways to solve the problem. Through communication and discussion, we can find a solution acceptable to both parties. This will not only resolve the current quarrel, but also enhance mutual understanding and trust.
5. Give her time and space
Sometimes, your girlfriend may need some time and space to Calm down. In this case, we should give her enough time and space and not ask too much or interfere with her. Wait for her to calm down before further communication and problem-solving.
6. Apologize to her
If we did something wrong during an argument, we should apologize to our girlfriend. Apologizing doesn’t mean we’re throwing in the towel or admitting we were wrong, but it means we’re willing to take proactive action to preserve the relationship. By apologizing, we can ease tensions and re-establish mutual trust and respect.
7. Learn to change
Finally, we should learn to learn from quarrels and work hard to change ourselves. If we keep repeating the same mistakes, arguments will become a constant in our relationships. Through reflection and change, we can avoid similar quarrels from happening again, and at the same time improve our emotional intelligence and ability to deal with problems.
When our girlfriend says "What do you want", we should calm down, listen to her opinions, express our own opinions, find solutions to the problem, give her time and space, and tell her ApologizeAnd learn to change. Through these methods, we can better handle arguments and maintain relationships with each other.
