Some boys obviously have good conditions, but why do they keep failing in chasing girls? Although condition and appearance are factors that attract a girl, they are not the key. Many times, some seemingly insignificant things It’s the details that matter. Below, I will give you some popular science about the behaviors of boys that are very cheap, and help you avoid lightning.
1. Disrespect for others
Some boys seem to be approachable and get along well with the people around them. , but that is all based on equality.
Once they face people from a different class than themselves, or people who are obviously at a disadvantage, they will immediately show a sharp and mean face.
For example, in a restaurant, if the waiter is slightly negligent or makes some minor mistakes, they will yell at them and argue with them.
Or when you pass a sanitation worker on the street, you may look disgusted and disdainful, making you want to jump out of the way.
Even on the bus, when I saw a group of migrant workers getting on the bus, I quickly covered my nose and backed away like a plague god.
A person’s quality is often reflected in some details. When you are disrespectful to others, all these behaviors will naturally be noticed by boys.
I would like to ask, when a girl discovers that under your good appearance, you actually hide such a face, how should they feel?
2. Pornography
I know that some people will definitely wonder why the price of pornography also drops. It is obvious that girls are also very dirty with their friends behind their backs. .
To be honest, it is not a big deal for adults to speak pornographically.
The question is whether the occasion and target of pornography are correct.
If you speak obscenely and show off your posture, it doesn’t matter if you are dealing with someone of the same sex, a close friend, or a close relationship.
After all, we are all adults, and sometimes driving a car inadvertently will be more conducive to bringing each other closer.
But in front of colleagues, ordinary friends of the opposite sex, or people with whom you are not very close, you talk dirty and obscenely, regardless of the distance between the two parties and whether the occasion is normal.
To put it nicely, you don’t know right from wrong, but in fact you are using environmental pressure to restrain the other person’s hands and feet and engage in verbal QJ.
The above are some behaviors that everyone thinks are not serious but are super cheap in the eyes of girls.
I say this to let everyone understand:
Sometimes, we find it difficult to fall in love and feel that even though we are in love, No matter how hard we try, we can't change it.The other person’s favor. In fact, your good impression already exists in the other person's heart. It's just some of our inadvertent behaviors that are erasing the goodwill we worked hard to gain bit by bit.
It’s not that we didn’t work hard enough, it’s that we took the wrong direction before we started. Importantly, this error directly overrules you.
Therefore, before we fall in love or get along with each other, remember to check ourselves first. It's easier than you think to start out in the best possible position. Of course, these behaviors are only among the top two in the price-dropping list, and there are definitely more than these price-dropping behaviors in the eyes of girls that make them avoid boys.
