In the past, it was very expensive for people to get to know each other. They needed carriages and horses, letters, recommendations, and introductions. Therefore, the process of pursuing the opposite sex will inevitably be affected by the evaluation of others. Nowadays, the popularity of the Internet and the development of social software have greatly improved the speed of understanding between the opposite sex. Therefore, it is more important to establish "attraction" nowadays. ”!Create an image of a male god.
1907, Bruce MacLelland Published his book "Imagination Brings Wealth", in which he summarized the law of attraction and proposed "You are what you think, not what you think you are" (You are what you think, not what you think you are) the law of attraction what you think you are). Therefore, in the process of flirting with girls, it is very necessary to establish a certain degree of self-confidence!
1. Existence
Only by choosing better mates can humans reproduce healthier and stronger offspring, and this tendency is deeply retained in human genes. In primitive tribes, the strongest being is naturally the tribe leader. In modern society, the strongest existence is naturally "money, power..."
Therefore, the hard power of flirting with girls is how high your existence value is in society. Working hard to improve your hard power will Can improve your success rate. But there are also situations where some boys are richer than many boys, but they just can’t pursue girls. It's possible that you are indeed better, but you haven't shown it, and the girl has passed you by.
Scenario 1: Xiaoyu’s circle of friends posted a photo of him and Jack Ma.
Scenario 2: There is nothing in Xiaoyu’s circle of friends (although he has taken photos with Jack Ma).
Before getting to know each other in depth, a girl’s opinion of you is reflected in the degree of your presentation. Therefore, there are also some "masters" who don't have much bank deposits but can always tease girls until their legs go weak, just because they show their better "existence" through some "decorations"!
2. Image
We are among the crowd. Think carefully about who will catch your eye? The one with better figure and appearance? Are girls who are more attractive to you? In the same way, if we exercise our bodies and pay attention to our dressing up, we can also get more eyes of the opposite sex and attract the attention of girls. This is exactly what we are pursuing. Prerequisites.
Similarly, I believe many boys will find that some boys with not so good looks can also chase girls. This has something to do with the object of pursuit, the method of pursuit, etc. But how to improve your own image is also an important step. Go to the barber shop to get a hairstyle that suits you, learn some dressing skills, and buy a few sets that are more suitable for you.clothing.
Exercise every day, develop a regular schedule and living habits, and become a better version of yourself. The changes in you like this will not only make you more confident, but also help you increase your attractiveness!
3. Characteristics
The girls that boys like have various labels such as girls who love to laugh, cute goddesses, gentle girls, etc. Therefore, girls will also put corresponding labels on various performances of boys, but many times they themselves When the personality trait label does not match what girls like, we need to create a trait label.
For example, you like a quiet girl. According to your analysis of her personality, she prefers a sunny boy, but you are more reserved. At this time, you need to make a certain degree of change. Only in this way can you improve the success rate of your confession.
