If the person you like is willing to chat, date, and have an affair with you, although you have not confirmed the relationship, you have done all the things that lovers should do. At this time, the girl keeps dragging on the uncertainty of the relationship, you will definitely be very upset. I am confused and want to know how to finalize the relationship. Let me share below that a girl keeps dragging on and is not sure about the relationship, what should I do?
1. Beware of becoming a spare tire
When a girl contacts you but refuses to have a confirmed relationship with you, she will always say that she is not ready and does not like you completely. You, when you have been hung up by her for a long time and are ready to give up, she tells you "I won't resist you anymore" to give you hope. When you asked her again, "Are you my girlfriend now?" she said, "Not yet." In this situation, you are actually being used as a spare tire. You must understand that if a girl is reluctant to confirm a relationship with you, or tells you to wait, it means she doesn't like you. Will someone who really likes you be reluctant to enter into a relationship? If you really like her, can't let her go, and think you can tolerate a little abuse, then I think there's no problem in continuing. Although it is wrong to speculate on girls with the worst intentions, you still have to be prepared for the possibility of becoming a spare tire. If there is no certainty, I think it can be given up. After all, not every spare tire has the possibility of becoming a regular one. Sometimes losing it is more painful than not getting it.
2. Become a better person
When you find that a girl has been dragging on and is not sure about the relationship , don’t continue to give gifts, be attentive, please, etc. What you need to do now is to make yourself excellent and strong. Try holding hands, kissing and other physical contact. Take your time. If it doesn’t work, retreat. Because generally speaking, when a girl has been dragging out an uncertain relationship (more than two months), it’s because she feels in her heart that you are not good enough for her, but there is no other person yet, or that person has appeared, but there has been no progress. So let's do this first. Once she makes progress, you will be dumped in minutes. By then, you will be mute and unable to explain the pain of eating coptis. She has not confirmed the relationship, and you have no right to care about who she is friends with. She has always been I’m not sure it’s because you shamelessly wanted to send gifts, buy clothes, etc. to others. It was you who was behind it, and they don’t have any responsibility. Do you understand?
3. Express your love bravely
Sometimes girls keep putting off uncertainty about the relationship, but it is not I want to use you as a backup, but because boys have not expressed their love, how can girls confirm their relationship with you? In this case, you need to be brave and speak up, but it may become embarrassing (bad if the girl doesn't like you). If there are no factors that prevent you from being together and you are always ambiguous, I actually feel that it is not necessary and it is a waste of time. However, if a girl just wants to be friends, then ignore what I said earlier.
Generally speaking, the situation of girls who have been dragging on for an uncertain relationship is not very optimistic, and they may become a backup for girls, so boys You also have to consider whether to continue or retreat based on the situation.
