When we love someone, we can be kind to them without hesitation and tell them how you feel. So what does it feel like to have a crush on someone? He obviously has a crush on her, but for various reasons, he can only like her silently in his heart. This feeling of liking but not daring to express it should be undoubtedly a secret love.
1. Like a thief
If you have a crush on her, you will pay attention to her silently, peek into her space or circle of friends, and even erase traces of the interview for fear that she will find out. I hope she knows, but I'm also afraid that she will know. This is probably similar to the feeling of being a thief.
2. Trying my best to get close to her
At that time, I liked a girl in the office. I couldn’t go to work with her in the morning, so I tried my best to get off work with her when I got off work. The boss would observe when she started to move, and then I would pretend to start off as if nothing had happened. Even if I didn't talk to her, it would be sweet to have her always in my sight.
3. Deliberately attract her attention
Deliberately be active in her presence , or deliberately make noise to attract her attention. For example, on the way out of school, I would constantly fight with my classmates. Do you think it's just for fun? In fact, it was more for cover, because only in this way, I could appear in front of her and behind her naturally.
4. She will be jealous for no reason.
When she talks or comes into contact with other people of the opposite sex, she will be jealous, but she suffers from the attitude of not being jealous and cannot show it in front of her. , it was very hard to hold it in.
5. Rehearse before talking to her
Every time you want to talk to her, you have to rack your brains to think of all kinds of excuses. Should I borrow a pen or a triangle? Of course, I will rehearse it carefully in my mind before speaking formally, so as not to let her find out that you did it on purpose.
6. I don’t want to leave her for a moment
Because I have a crush and I can’t express my thoughts to her, I can only be alone. Human digestion. If you can see her from time to time, you can feel comforted. If you can't see her, you will feel lost, so you don't want to leave her for a moment.
7. She is a barometer of her mood
When she is happy, you are happy too; when she is sad, your heart is filled with dark clouds. Your mood fluctuates because of her mood.
8. Often have unrealistic fantasies
I always fantasize about the days with her, and everything can be associated with her. She will inadvertently think about what she is doing and thinking, and will not voluntarily include herself in it, just like you are already together.
9. You will be very excited when she takes the initiative to find you
Because you have a crush on her, so you usually will not take the initiative to find her, for fear that you will expose yourself. Let her see your emotions, but if she takes the initiative to find you, she will be so happy that her heart beats faster and her blood pressure rises (no exaggeration at all).
If you have the above crush. There is no doubt that you like her. Secret love is young and beautiful, and most of it ends in nothing. The reason why you don't express your feelings to the other person is nothing more than the fear of rejection. In retrospect, it is also a beautiful thing, but once the confession is rejected, this beauty may be covered with a layer of dust.
