When I first started dating online, because the two people had not met each other and were not very familiar with each other, chatting often led to the awkward situation of having nothing to say. In the long run, the relationship between the two would not progress but would retreat. The editor below will teach you how to chat and cultivate feelings when you first start online dating.
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1. Girls’ favorite online dating topics
When chatting about online dating, points of interest are the key. Only when girls are interested in what you say can your chat proceed better. Below Here are some of the girls’ favorite online dating topics:
1. Work and daily life as topics
When chatting online, due to the virtuality and distance, you can chat with the other person at this time Some topics about work and daily life can be used to increase the sense of reality and effectively increase the other person's sense of security. For example, tell a girl that you are very tired these days and the company is very busy, and then ask her how her work is going.
2. Use personal interests and hobbies as the topic
Personal interests and hobbies are something that everyone has, and they are also the easiest topic to talk about online dating. Talking about hobbies and interests with girls can establish the most basic points of interest with girls. First tell the other person your interests and hobbies to see the other person's reaction, and then find resonance points in your personal hobbies.
3. Use daily news as topics
In fact, when chatting with girls, you cannot always be funny She is happy, so you can use what you see and hear in your daily life as topics. These topics can be Weibo hot searches, current affairs hot spots, life insights, etc. In short, tell the other person your thoughts and first see what aspects of the content the other person likes. interested.
4. Use popular film and television works as topics
Many girls may not like to play games, but I believe many people like to watch TV series and movies, so you can find them from popular movies and TV series Topics, chat with girls about their opinions and highlights of movies, establish common hobbies, and there will be more topics to talk about.
2. Online dating skills for starting a topic with a girl
If you have a topic to chat with a girl, you can get a positive response from the other party when both parties are still in the good relationship period, but once it reaches a stable stage, At this stage, the other party's interest will be weak. At this time, you need to expand the topic and learn to use one topic to chat with the girl for a long time.
1. One sentence contains multiple topics
Many people bring up a topic when chatting with girls, and then ask a girl to answer a question. The content can only beAround a point, for example:
Woman: It’s a little cool here these days, but how about you.
Male: It’s fine here, neither hot nor cold.
Male: I just put on my sweater, now I won’t take it off again.
Girl: Yeah.
In the above conversation, it cannot be said that the boy’s answer is not good enough, but it is obvious that the girl’s interest is not high and she is not interested in what you say. At this time, giving the other party a topic will have a much better effect.
The weather is a bit cold these days. I can only ride an electric bike to work. Now I have to drive. When can I not go to work?
This sentence contains three themes. One is that the weather is getting colder, you have a car, and you don’t want to work. The more information contained in the sentence, the better The more points of interest you provide, the more topics the other party can choose from.
2. Extend the topic downwards
Extending the topic downward is to chat about the topic in depth , turn the topic into a short story, arouse the other person's curiosity and stimulate the other person's emotions.
Male: You don’t know how heavy the traffic jam is when I drive to the company.
Female: The workplace must be very congested.
Male: Do you think it’s strange or not? When I was riding an electric bike, the road was already very good. But when I was driving, the road started to get bad. Do you think it’s irritating or not?
Girl: Haha, what a coincidence.
Boy: Well, then I took a detour, and someone crashed into the car in front of me. There was a quarrel there. You said it was easy to go to work.
Focus on a topic (must make girls find it interesting and have something to talk about), constantly enrich this topic, and give the other party an overall impression. This will make it easier for girls to be motivated and take the initiative to reply to you.
Since you have chosen online dating, let’s talk about developing a relationship!
