When pursuing a girl you like, chatting is very important. Only by mastering the correct chatting method can you make the other party fall in love with you. So how should you chat when you are pursuing a girl?

1. Don’t express your need, but express your goodwill

< p> As the saying goes, since ancient times, confessions have always been in vain, but love letters have never been expressive.

If boys all over the world could win the hearts of girls by confessing their love, then you wouldn’t see so many singles when you go back to the village during the Chinese New Year.

Of course, there are many girls who like you to be more direct and domineering, but the prerequisite for this is that she is also interested in you.

If this premise is not clear, then what she is pursuing is nothing more than a sense of atmosphere and participation. She guesses this every day, he likes me, he doesn't like me, he likes me, he doesn't like me.

Before I could figure out whether he liked him or not, I started thinking about him: Why do I keep thinking about this? Do I like him?

Because such boys make her feel challenged and mysterious.

The core is not to express feelings, but to express some good feelings to girls, giving girls a feeling of half-covering their faces with a pipa.

Just remember this formula: express interest + express obstruction

For example, you can say: "I can't resist your selfie (express interest), but it's okay, just Take a selfie. (Expression of hindrance)"

For another example, you can say: "Your voice makes people feel comfortable (Expression of interest), but it's a pity that the joke is not very funny (Expression of hindrance)"

Then add a life-saving expression, and mix a little ambiguity and affection into the joke. When a girl starts to invest more time in studying your ideas, don't you now have the capital to continue chatting with her?

2. Being aloof and trying to please is not advisable

As the saying goes, the goddess who is held up must be licked Aloof.

We have to say that some girls’ judgment of their own value comes from how many boys chase them.

The more boys chasing her, the more arrogant she behaves, right? Let’s not talk about it for now. Some of our boys, after knowing some evil ways, feel that they have to suppress girls, and girls will not. Aloof.

There are even more exaggerated things. They just open their mouths and talk about the girl’s friends, hometown and family of origin.

I’m afraid you haven’t been beaten since you were a child, right? If she leaves you a red exclamation mark, that’s enough to give you face.

Actually, I know what everyone’s purpose is. They just want to liven up the atmosphere. Just remember this formula: naughty words + insensitive things done by girls

For example, if you dislike a girl who goes to bed late, you can say: "If you don't sleep when I go to bed, you are a bald baby."

Our purpose is to adjust the atmosphere and get closer, not to simply tease the girl. .

3. Don’t show off your value, but show it

Many boys are not I just hinted and talked directly. My salary is quite high, my future job prospects are very good, I have a house and a car at home.

Of course, I’m not saying that these are bad, but we’re not talking about it now. It’s too early. Girls will think that comparing the garage to me is not looking down on me. Is it done?

Or why can’t you just chat openly? The core here is that when chatting with girls, you need to show your value from the side.

Remember this formula: continue the topic + side presentation

When you talk to girls about music, you can say: "I played guitar and sang songs in school (continue the topic) , I’m ashamed to say that I was raped by my senior sister later (showing my charm from the side)”

It is indeed a bit hard to say it out loud, but girls still make small calculations in their minds. It seems that he still has It's quite attractive. When a girl sees your value and starts to appreciate you, are you still far from being single?