
Boys generally look at appearance when looking for a girlfriend. After all, the first thing they see is appearance. Girls who are not good-looking are directly passed over. Therefore, beautiful girls are generally particularly popular with boys, and they are attracted by the opposite sex. It's also better. But although some girls are beautiful, few boys get close to them. Why are some girls beautiful but not close to the opposite sex?
1. Boys feel that they are not worthy.
Some girls are beautiful and have good personalities. They are also very good people. They seem to be the ones that many people will like, but they are not good enough. People dare to chase. As mentioned above, they are very beautiful and have good personalities. In the 21st century, beautiful women are a relatively scarce resource. Therefore, when most boys see a beautiful girl, they will take it for granted that she already has a suitor. , even if a boy knows that she has no suitors, he will think that he is not worthy of this girl because of his lack of self-confidence, so he will give up. This is one reason.
Another reason may be that these beautiful girls have very high standards for mate selection, so that most boys cannot meet their requirements. She is also unwilling to contact boys who do not meet their mate selection requirements, so she appears She has bad luck with the opposite sex.
2. Boys are afraid that they will not be able to hold their own.
Some boys will not chase beautiful girls even if they know that no one will chase them. I don't dare to get in touch with her because I'm afraid I can't handle this type of girl. I feel that such a girl is too aloof, or looks too beautiful and is not the same kind of person as me, and she will definitely not be able to fit into the circle of people like her, so I psychologically give up contact with her. You may also think that someone who is too beautiful is arrogant, has high demands, pursues many people, and is too narrow-minded to keep a bunch of spare tires. And the purpose is too strong, the conditions are not enough, and I can't help but don't want to be used. Or you may be afraid that the other party will be too troublesome, have too many suitors, and be under too much pressure, and that you may be accidentally hurt all the time. I always feel that such a beauty has some purpose in contacting me. Does she want to spend all my money or dig out my kidneys? I also feel that beauties pursue perfection, have many ideas, and have too high demands, and it is too tiring for ordinary people to get along with them.
3. Girls’ personality issues
Some beautiful girls are more introverted and will not take the initiative to interact with the opposite sex. In communication, it is easy to be nervous in situations where there are many members of the opposite sex, so you subconsciously avoid appearing in situations where there are many members of the opposite sex, let alone get in front of the opposite sex. Even if a boy takes the initiative to greet her, she seems very nervous and doesn't perform well. Therefore, many boys will think that such girls are very cold, but in fact, girls are just shy.
Girls are beautiful but have poor compatibility with the opposite sex. But my situation is actually common among many people. Boys should not be afraid to contact girls just because they are beautiful. Sometimes, you will only know the outcome after you try.
