If you want to know whether a girl is interested in you, you can judge from their various performances when getting along with them, because most of these performances cannot be performed, or if she is not interested in you, Almost no one would be willing to spend that cost to perform.
1. Physical contact during a date
When there are many people and cars crossing the road , pull the girl’s arm (if you dare not hold hands), and lead her away.
If a girl strongly resists and expresses her desire to leave by herself, then it is obvious that she does not like her at all.
Because it has been rationalized, there are many people, and she is afraid that she will not be safe.
If you are a little reserved and resist, it can only mean that you don’t hate you.
If you are shy and bow your head, then congratulations.
The two of them wait side by side at the red light. When they start walking, or when they enter the restaurant door, they gently touch (just a moment, gentlemen will do this, don’t make a fuss) between the girl’s back and shoulders.
If girls quickly avoid your touch or even jump away, then you can basically give up.
If the reaction is normal, then at least it means that you are not disgusted.
Close to girls’ low-security but non-taboo areas
For example, hair and ears.
“Hey, don’t move, there’s something in your hair, I’ll help you get it out.”
If she hides and says, “Hey, it’s okay, I’ll just take a photo with my phone.” That means she has no interest or affection in you.
If she is obedient and does not move, it means that she has a good impression of you.
No favorable impression.
If you come over, it means you have entered the safe zone and have a basic goodwill.
If you don’t have the courage to test the first method, there is a second method.
2. Subconscious testing from a distance
If you two are facing each other, use a straw on a small table Drink milk tea.
You can unconsciously push your cup towards the girl. If the girl does not withdraw the cup, it means that she is not disgusted with your approach.
If she withdraws, it means she is keeping a distance from you.
Similarly, if you approach her while walking, and she slowly hides away, and the two of you are almost in the ditch, it means that she is not interested in you;
If you approach her Created a lot of unconscious touching between two people, so congratulations, there isBasic goodwill.
3. Observe the composition of girls’ responses during the chat
For example, the following conversation scene:
You: What are you doing?
A. She: Nothing (response is very bad)
B. She: At work (response is average)
C. She: I am at work, so tired (present tense + status description: good response)
D. Her: I am at work, so tired, what about you (present tense + status + open topic: The response is very good)
Of course, there is another possibility that you don’t reply, or you reply after a long time, which is obviously because you don’t want to chat with you.
Both A and B are not interested in you and do not want to chat with you, which is equivalent to not having a good impression of you.
In short, I can’t answer this and have to think about how to continue. Basically, I just don’t want to chat with you.
C and D are interested in you and want to chat with you, and their levels are different.
When girls are willing to share their current status, this is female thinking, which is a behavioral pattern in a state of high security, originating from the sharing between girls in caves in ancient times. If a girl continues to ask you questions, it is obvious that she is interested in and has a good impression of you.
