Every time we go on a date, we hope to leave a deep impression on the girl and bring her a good experience. Chatting is essential in dating. If we can't find a topic to chat with girls, or find inappropriate topics, the atmosphere will become awkward. So what are the topics that you should never talk about when dating a girl?
1. Don’t talk about love history
Some boys will brag about their relationship history when dating a girl they like. This way of showing off their charm is wrong.
What you may be thinking is: Look how good I am, so many girls like me.
But girls don’t think so. She will put you on the list of candidates or pass you directly. Because you gave her the impression of a self-righteous and smart person.
Girls think that boys who have been in love will be more considerate, but it does not mean that as long as you have been in love a lot, she will like you. And constantly talking about your relationship history in front of a girl will make her think that you are a person with no confidence.
Therefore, when dating a girl, it is best not to talk about your emotional experiences. After all, girls are not here to listen to stories. If she really wants to ask, then you tell her: "If you still want to hear it, come out next time."
2. Avoid showing off your wealth
Many boys believe that girls nowadays value material things more, so when dating, they will show off their financial status in a high-profile manner.
Even if we have money, we should not show it too openly in front of girls, as if we are treating dating as a way to select girlfriends. Although a girl will know that you are rich, she will see you as a nouveau riche rather than a person who is both inside and outside.
It is true that some girls like this kind of nouveau riche, but the impression given to girls is always uncomfortable. If we want to show our financial level, a better way is to choose a high-end date location and pay attention to dressing up. Only this low-key way of showing off our wealth will be liked by more girls.
3. Be careful not to overflow with negative energy
When some boys are dating and chatting, they always end up chatting and talking about negative energy. Topics are expressed without thinking.
Maybe you haven’t noticed that when talking about this kind of topic, you always think about things in a bad direction, complain about life, and give people the feeling of a loser.
Everyone has various kinds of pressure in their lives, but we should bear the burden and move forward instead of venting these emotions. If your life is full of negative energy, it will be difficult for a girl to believe that you can give her a bright future.
4. Don’t talk to yourself
The most common reason for failed dates is It’s just that one side talks too much. Maybe you accidentally talked too much just to avoid a cold moment.
But when dating, there should be a sense of interaction, and both people should be involved in each other's interactions. If a girl doesn't like to talk, you should find more topics and listen to her thoughts.
We can ask questions to the girl, and we can also follow up and confirm based on her answers. Make her feel more involved in the date.
When we are dating girls, we must avoid the four topics mentioned above. In fact, as long as the other person's impression of you is not too bad during the date, you can continue to contact and develop your relationship later. If you accidentally offend a girl the first time, then you can only change your target.
