Many boys don’t understand girls, so when they chase a girl, they either fall into unrequited love or they don’t dare to take the initiative because they don’t know what the other person thinks. So how do you know if a person likes you? What about?
1. Women don’t like your performance
(1) Automatically omit Previous message
Some people say that when two people are together, whoever talks more will lose.
Actually, you can’t say that. Falling in love is not a battle. What about winning and losing?
But, this can indeed be used as a criterion to judge whether a person likes you or not.
If you send several messages, it’s fine if she doesn’t reply in time. But when she replies to you, she doesn’t even bother to read the previous messages and directly asks you “what’s wrong”.
At this time, really, sometimes I think, forget it. What else is there to say?
(2) Disappear while chatting
There is no concluding remarks when chatting. You are chatting enthusiastically, but she disappears inexplicably.
I do have some friends like this around me. They chatted and chatted but nothing happened, and they didn’t say goodbye, just, gone~
Under my ruthless whipping, Most of them have corrected this problem, and some have been defeated by my "eye for an eye".
Hmph, who is not a arrogant little public servant?
In my opinion, this is a very impolite behavior and will make people feel unwelcome. Respect, resulting in a very unpleasant chat experience.
Of course, there are differences between friends and lovers.
Friends may sometimes overlook some details because they are too familiar with each other. But if there is really a small flame of love, no matter whether it is a boy or a girl, they will never allow this situation to exist. It takes three minutes to say goodbye.
So if you have ever experienced this kind of treatment, I think, 1,000%, it is a shame.
(3) Humor doesn’t work either
But for anyone who doesn’t dislike it, someone else will send you a You will also echo a few jokes, jokes, etc., right?
Because you know that others want to make you happy.
But it’s also strange, if once you know that someone likes you, but you don’t like him, no matter how he treats you well or makes you laugh, you don’t want to talk to him, and you even want to block him.
When I say this, you will understand.
(4) Perfunctory concern
When the person you like is sick, post it on Moments and wish you could run to him to take care of him immediately.They are people who ask for help, and they are also people who deliver medicine.
If it’s someone you don’t like, don’t even post it on Moments. Just tell her directly, and they won’t bother to reply. At most, they can just say: Remember to take medicine and drink more hot water.
What’s the use of soliciting care if it has no warmth?
So, sometimes, you can see through a person’s heart after experiencing some things.
2. How women like you
If a girl likes you, many things will not matter to them They want to be as restrained as possible, but their little thoughts will also be exposed through their actions:
(1) Good memory
They say that looking at the friend circle of the person they like is like reading. Understand, not too much at all.
Not to mention that every girl who falls in love is a Sherlock Holmes. If a girl likes you, then she must have already turned your circle of friends upside down, and she has already kept your interests, hobbies, living habits, and eating habits firmly in mind.
For example, one day you posted in Moments "I am serious about eating shrimp" with a picture of a plate of shrimp you just finished eating.
It was originally a very casual status. During a chat by chance, the girl said to you: "I checked into a Sichuan restaurant recently and finally ate authentic Sichuan food. By the way, don't you like shrimps?" Well, their shrimp is very good, you must try it."
You are still wondering: "How do you know I like shrimp?"
The girl said: "You posted it on your own WeChat Moments!"
At this time, you should know that the girl in front of you definitely doesn't just treat you as an ordinary friend.
(2) Become emotional
When there is no one we like, our emotions can be stable. Once we have someone we like, his words, deeds, and Every smile affects our emotions. Have you ever felt this way?
So, if a girl often shows some confusing emotions because of your words and deeds, you can analyze her carefully to see if she is interested in you.
For example:
When you have a happy chat with other girls, her mood will become very depressed and she will not pay much attention to you.
When you take the initiative to share your emotions with her, she becomes particularly considerate and starts to comfort you and enlighten you, making you feel warm.
She doesn’t want to be really angry with you, but when she sees you getting close to others, she will feel uncontrollably disappointed.
This most authentic expression of emotion is actually a direct reflection of her true inner feelings.
(3) To your preferencesClose
The ancients said it well, a woman should look good to those who please her. Although it is already 2020, girls’ ideas are much more avant-garde than those of the ancients, but this characteristic can be said to be even worse.
A very simple reference standard for judging whether a girl likes you is whether she dresses up in a special way when she sees you.
For example, you said that you like girls to wear light makeup. Maybe she didn’t like makeup before, so she started to learn makeup for you. Then your status in her heart is completely different.
Of course, this is only one aspect. For another example, you don’t like spicy food, but she still insists on trying the restaurant you recommend;
She doesn’t like to watch science fiction movies, but if you want to watch them, she will accompany you. Read it...
In short, if a girl is willing to change her habits, accommodate and try yours, then she must be interested in you, don't miss it. !
(4) Break your own principles
For women, if the boy they like asks for a late night snack, even if they have already fallen asleep, they can’t wait to get up and put on makeup immediately. I went to see him and he was happy.
But if it’s a boy you don’t like, you can easily refuse: “It’s so late, I’ve already gone to bed, let’s go to another day.”
More seriously, you will be very angry. real. What are you thinking about asking me out so late? Don’t you know that staying up late will make you older?
Look, the difference is so big.
There is no way, although it is cruel, it is also very effective.
If you are not sure whether a girl likes you, you might as well try asking her out for supper. If she doesn’t beat you to death, she already loves you to death in her heart.