If you hear a girl you like say to you: Let’s just be ordinary friends, you are a good person. At this time, instead of being heartbroken, eating takeaways and swiping the king angrily, it is better to change your mind and counterattack. Maybe the result is not that bad and you can still catch her. So what is this idea?
A girl said how to catch up with you when you are just friends
1. Show your value
The jokes between friends must be too serious. Many friends can't break through the boundaries because they don't show their good side, so they lack expectations and admiration. When you uncharacteristically tell girls your future plans. And he shows his strength and potential in a slightly modified way, making girls feel that even if they are friends, you don’t actually know me that well, and I still have some secrets about you. This will deepen your attraction to him. , girls will feel that you have become difficult to figure out now.
A girl treats you as an ordinary friend. This at least gives you a position. You can often put the label of an ordinary friend on your face and appear next to her with a harmless look. This is always Once it appears, it's time for you to show your value, for example:
You can give her the cup of hot water directly to show that you are not just good at talking;
You can give her the Tell her your plan to make one million dollars per year within ten years, which means that you are motivated and willing to work;
You can also inadvertently reveal that Guangzhou A product, which means that you are quite high-quality;
General Generally speaking, as long as you often appear around girls, you will have endless opportunities.
2. Try to do ambiguous actions
Since we are friends, girls will be wary of you at this time. If it is lower, you can try to give the girl more hints to increase the chance of ambiguity. For example, when you go out to play, have a wild time with the girl and touch the girl's body intentionally or unintentionally, but remember that it is not a sensitive part. Observe the girl's expression and reaction at this time. A girl who has thoughts about you will not reject physical contact with you. How to do it specifically?
When you often appear around girls, you need to inadvertently do similar ambiguous actions, such as:
Occasionally touch a girl’s hair to express her shampoo. It's time to change;
When you are crossing the road, push her to the edge of the road to indicate that girls should walk inside;
When you are laughing and joking, pinch her flesh to indicate the fat inside. It’s all good;
You always have to find those opportunities to meet girls reasonably. When you become more and more harmonious and accustomed to each other, it will come naturally.
3. Stay with her and seek opportunities
YouIf the girl you like is just a friend of yours, ok, first find a way to stay by her side, become familiar with her, and wait for the opportunity to make a move. Don't think it's humble. In this ever-changing era, keeping your love unchanged will definitely pay off in the long run. I don't know how many boys would envy this kind of ordinary friendship relationship, because it is really easy to break through this layer of paper and become a couple.
Finally, how to turn from ordinary friends to lovers is actually just this piece of paper. It is your honor to be regarded as a normal friend by a girl. How many people want to be a normal friend but have no chance, and you are only one step away from becoming a friend and a lover. I hope the above content can help you and a girl transform from friends to lovers.