The same is true for chasing girls. Some boys can easily catch the girl they like, while other boys struggle and fail again and again. In the end, they feel tired after chasing girls. Why does this happen?
In fact, a boy often fails to chase girls and feels very tired. Basically, there are these 3 reasons:
1. Reasons why chasing girls feels so tiring
1. Not well matched with girls
Everyone has the love of beauty In short, this also leads to many boys only choosing beautiful and excellent girls to pursue.
To pursue such a girl, the energy and money spent are relatively high. After all, an outstanding girl will definitely attract more than just you as a boy. Therefore, in such fierce competition, it is easy to be eliminated if you are not careful. How can you not be tired in such a tense situation?
2. Being too good to girls
This kind of behavior mostly happens to boys who are too deep into it. They think that as long as they keep being nice to girls, they can win the favor of the goddess, and they will even sacrifice their dignity for the girl they like. For example, if the girl you like clearly rejects you, you still try your best to be nice to her and send her crazy gifts. He just turned himself into a person without dignity just to ask for her affirmation. The melon that is forced is not sweet, and what you get in the end is not love! And this will only tire you out.
3. If the mentality is not up to standard
If the mentality is not up to standard, it will be difficult to succeed in anything and encounter problems. If you are always negative and pessimistic, you can find excuses to avoid putting things into practice, and if you have no pursuits or ideals, your life will be a stagnant water. Can such a person not feel tired of such a laborious and even thankless task of chasing girls?
Then how can he not be so tired of chasing girls?
2. How to chase girls without feeling so tired
1. Find a girl who is worth the same as yourself
Since ancient times, love has always been about a well-matched person. If you don’t want to feel so tired chasing girls, then The gap between you and the girl you want to pursue must not be too big, at least to the extent that you feel like a good match. If you really want to chase after someone who is higher than yourself, don't chase after someone who is too much higher. Just choose someone who can reach her value with a little effort.
2. Think more about girls’ feelings
As a boy, before chasing a girl, you must understand that you are chasing a girl, an independent thinker, a serious female thinker, and a negative attitude toward women. Women who are sensitive to their surrounding environment and pay most attention to their inner feelings are fundamentally different from you. Therefore, when getting along with girls, you should consider things more from the other person's perspective and consider the other person's thoughts and feelings.
You can’t always start from your ownThink about things from a girl's perspective, make decisions based on the other person's feelings, keep the other person in a comfortable, natural, and happy state, so that as a woman, she can get the good feeling she wants in her heart. You can easily catch her.
3. Don’t pay so much attention to the results
When many boys pursue girls, they will completely follow the marriage partner. , although this is true, it can easily reveal the need and purpose for girls, because chasing girls too closely will put pressure on her, and girls will feel upset when the pressure is high.
Like the daily morning and evening greetings and the bombardment of "household registration"-style messages, inviting girls out every time will bring pressure to girls, and it will be thankless for themselves.
If you want to pursue a girl, you must maintain a certain sense of rhythm and be relaxed. Do not be too quick and hasty when pursuing a girl, because you will expose your sense of need too early and expose yourself too much. Purpose will make you lose the initiative and control in this relationship. You will not be able to control this relationship. The decision can only be made by the girl and she will become very passive.
The process of getting along with girls must be gradual, just take your time, and the moisturizing will penetrate slowly and silently. If she also likes you, strike while the iron is hot and make the final decision.
