Girls pay great attention to details. In the process of getting along with each other, they may develop a liking for you because of your various details. Therefore, if you want the girl you like to be attracted to you, you must grasp the details. So what are the behaviors of boys that most make girls excited?
1. High emotional intelligence resolves embarrassment
A boy’s high emotional intelligence is a super weapon to capture the heart of a girl.
If you want a girl to feel that you have high emotional intelligence, the most important thing is to pay more attention to her.
For example, when you feel that she doesn’t want to talk anymore, let her go in time.
You can say this: "You must be tired after talking for so long. I happen to have some work to do, so I will let you go for now. Good night."
Then For example, during a party, a girl feels uncomfortable and wants to leave early, but is embarrassed to say so.
At this time, you can say to your friends: "You guys have fun first. We want to be alone for a while and won't play with you."
After you come out, talk to the girls again Explanation: "Don't get me wrong, I just said that because I was afraid that my friends wouldn't let us out. Let's go, I'll take you back."
Put it this way, girls won't feel embarrassed, but I will definitely be thinking about this ambiguity in my heart.
2. Be willing to pay for scarce resources
The so-called scarce resources actually mean that they are relatively There are few resources and everyone’s situation is different.
For example, those who have no money are willing to spend money for her, and those who have no time are willing to make time to accompany her.
Of course, scarce resources are definitely not limited to money, patience is also a scarce resource.
If you can make her feel that she is more important than your game, then she will definitely remember everything you do for her at the expense of game time.
Another example is action. After all, many people are giants in language and dwarfs in action.
3. Use actions instead of words
Sweet words can be typed and gifts can be ordered online, but don’t forget Yes, feelings need warmth.
Love is not about mobile phones, nor about gifts. The key is that you have to have a male protagonist by your side, right?
If during the holidays, you don’t If you don't just send a blessing on WeChat, but go to the flower shop to buy a bouquet of flowers in person, write a small card with blessings, and send it to her, then your weight in her heart will be much heavier.
There are many small details in life that prove that warmth in action will really make a girl remember you for a long time.
For example, when walking together, you suddenly pull her to the inside side.
Rather than telling her to wear more clothes when it’s cold in winter, and reminding her to prevent heatstroke when it’s hot in summer, it’s better to check the weather forecast the night before and remind her that the temperature will drop the next day and to remember to wear a coat.
Instead of being at a loss when her period is uncomfortable and can only say to drink more hot water, it is better to buy more baby warmers in advance and prepare them.
Don’t underestimate the delicateness and perception of girls. Don’t care so much and do more practical things, which will make it easier for girls to be attracted.