When the girl you like asks you what you are doing on WeChat, I believe that many boys are both happy and confused in their hearts. The happy thing is that the girl finally chats with them, but the confused ones really don’t know what to do. answer.

If you want to know how to answer, you need to understand the subtext behind the girl's "What are you doing?"

1. Girls are bored

The development of the Internet has made people’s chat more convenient. People can easily know what the other person is doing by moving their fingers. With this, At the same time, people are very lonely mentally. When they open WeChat, they don’t know who to talk to to express their feelings.

If a girl rarely chats with you, but suddenly asks you what you are doing on WeChat, she may be in a lonely and boring state at this time, and just wants to kill time by chatting with you. If you have a crush on her, now is the best time to flirt with her, so be sure to seize this hard-won opportunity.

　2. Girls miss you

In our concept, women seem to be very passive, but now times and values ??have changed. When women are When she really likes a man, she will also become proactive and want to firmly lock the man's heart by taking the initiative. And when a woman really likes someone, she will show it in her actions and words.

For example, she often takes the initiative to chat with you, and the chat topics are all around you, because she likes and is always reluctant to end the chat with you, etc. If you find that a girl has the above behaviors, then the girl is on WeChat The subtext behind saying "what are you doing" to you is that I like you, and I want to start a chat with you carefully.

So, when a girl says "Are you there?" you can answer like this:

1. Polite reply

If you are not sure how a girl feels about you, and you cannot guess what the girl wants from you, when the girl takes the initiative to say to you "What are you doing" on WeChat? , then you can reply to the other party politely.

　①. You can reply directly to the other party: "I'm doing XXX, I'm not busy at the moment, what can I do?"

　②. But if you dislike the girl who sends you WeChat, You can directly reply: "WeChat emoticon" "um" "oh"...

③. Of course, for a girl who has no feelings at all, you can also put her message aside first and wait for one or two Reply to her after hours, or simply ignore her WeChat messages.

2. Humorous replies

When a girl comes to chat with you because she is bored, she probably wants to talk to you.You connect your feelings, this is the time to show your humor. Humor is the lubricant of attraction between men and women. It can not only eliminate the boredom of girls at this time, but also increase their understanding of you.

You can reply to girls in a humorous way:

"Guess what I am doing [smiling face] "

"Your message is coming as soon as I sneeze"

"I know you are about to send a message when I smell the meat-filled buns"

3. High-value replies

No woman will like an unmotivated man. If a girl asks you "What are you doing" on WeChat, you will instantly respond every time. Replying to her immediately will leave the girl with the impression that you have nothing to do, so showing value is a good way to reply.

You can reply to a girl like this:

“I was just reading this book and I feel I gained a lot”

“I’m getting ready to go skiing with my friends”

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　“I just came out of the gym and plan to go home and take a hot bath”

　4. Ambiguous Reply

If you are trying to flirt with the girl you are texting on WeChat, then the best opportunity to flirt with her is if the girl takes the initiative to send you a message asking "what are you doing".

You can reply to her ambiguously like this:

"I was wondering what you were doing"

"I was planning to invite you to watch a movie, your news It’s coming”

“I’m thinking of you [shy face]”