Many boys who cannot find girlfriends blame people for being too realistic, but why are men unrealistic? Any man with some financial strength wants to find a young and beautiful woman.
In fact, the reason why many men have difficulty getting out of singles is not because of women, but because of themselves. Men who blame women are the most irresponsible. Today we will summarize which men in the world can’t find a girlfriend.
Which men in the world can’t find a girlfriend?
1. Too high a standard
Women who are attracted to men are usually disdainful to women. He, as for the women who like him, usually he doesn't like, so he falls into a state of being unable to achieve high and achieving low, which is what we usually say, your ability is not worthy of your ambition. Your strength and value are not worthy of your vision.
Many men fall in love with a girl because she is beautiful, has a good personality, has a good job, and is very good in all aspects. As for himself, he likes a girl very much, but then look at his meager income. With a small amount of savings, he immediately gave up and couldn't muster up the courage to pursue the other party because he knew that from a practical point of view, he was not worthy of the girl.
Therefore, many boys are unwilling to take the risk of being rejected by girls. They often joke about themselves. Isn’t it good for him to be single? Isn’t it good to play games? But when he sees others in pairs, he feels uncomfortable. Very envious.
2. Don’t think about progress
Every single person, where do you belong in the marriage and love market? In fact, there is a ruler for each level. For men, your financial conditions, your education, your abilities, for women, your appearance, your age, etc. are all measured by an invisible ruler.
Many times it doesn’t mean that you can’t find a partner. It’s about your value. Your value in the marriage market is not worthy of your vision. Many men know that their value is not high, but they still don’t want to make progress. They stay at home playing games every day and are not willing to go to the gym to exercise. . I would rather check my phone, Weibo, and TikTok every day than recharge and enrich my skills and knowledge.
So when I faced the girl I liked again and again, I was intimidated and did not dare to pursue her. In the end, I found that the girl I liked was holding hands with a boy with better material conditions.
In the end, I would like to say that women are so realistic and women are so material. In fact, you are single because you are content with the status quo and are lazy and unwilling to make progress.
On the contrary, if you can see the gap between you and the other party, and you must actively work hard to change it,Change yourself and improve yourself, then this gap will become your motivation to move forward.
We often say that a man’s own value is his greatest attraction and the most effective way for him to chase girls. So if you can't find a girlfriend. Instead of complaining about women's material and social reality, you might as well reflect on yourself. Is it because you are too lazy, don't want to make progress, don't want to change, or because your vision is too high, and your own value is not worthy of your vision? What? Many times, we do not have a clear understanding of ourselves and overestimate our position in this society.
