In fact, introversion is really not a shortcoming, but introversion may be the focus of why you can't find a partner. Because introverted boys don’t dare to take the initiative to contact and get along with girls. Moreover, the circle of introverted boys will become smaller and smaller, and it will become more and more difficult to find a partner. So how do introverted boys who have a small circle find a partner? Below I will share with you the tips for getting out of singles for boys who have a small circle and are introverted.
How do introverted boys with a small circle find a partner?
1. Find a partner through blind dates
In fact, I know that many people are quite resistant to blind dates. It seems a bit awkward, but I have to say that this blind date is the last choice. Why is it said to be very effective? In fact, well-known blind date websites are quite reliable. The most important thing is that you can easily find some relatively honest people. Or you can find a matchmaker to introduce girls to you, and then your information will be posted like a resume. When sharing, height, weight, family, background, and income are all listed. The requirements for finding a partner are also very clear. Just like an interview, it is a two-way screening process.
Another advantage of blind dates is that they are in the same city. As long as you pass the preliminary screening and it is convenient to meet, you can avoid being in different places. , it’s very difficult to deal with this situation. Of course, you should also be wary of scams like paying money first and then seeing the person. Another point is that the purpose of being sad is slightly stronger.
2. Hug the thighs
What does it mean to hug the thighs? That is, if you think you should get in touch with boys who have more girls around you, then see if there are any boys around you who are more sociable. You can follow him to activities and ask him to introduce you to some girls, but this is indeed the case. If you treat the symptoms but not the root cause, then I suggest you start a relationship with this big brother.
Because generally boys with a relatively large social circle have very good personal social skills, so you can observe how he gets along with girls while going out with him. , what you learn is how to socialize, how to evaluate, and how to guide girls to behave. With the experience gained through practice, you will only need to master some relatively simple flirting skills in the later period, and then feed them back to actual social interactions to ensure that the aunt When I see you, I feel like I am a different person. Of course, this is a process that takes some time, so don’t be anxious and take your time.
3. Interest expansion
In fact, if the circle of buddies around you is also small, everyone’s resources will be relatively small. There are few, let alone female resources that can be introduced to you. In this case, you can only rely on yourself. This is to introduce to you a kind of interest expansion. For example, I don’t ask you to expand on the more difficult ones, but start with the simplest ones.
For example, if you like watching a certain movie, right? Then you can search certain platforms, read the comments below the movie, and find like-minded people to interact with. In fact, it is easier to meet people this way. Find people who are destined to have similar views to you. People who are added in this way will have a stronger desire to develop. Otherwise, who would have nothing to do with posting a long movie review online.
