Many people who choose to go on a blind date have no idea what they want. Whether they are introduced by friends or met through an agency, they all get along with everyone who comes. When the other party has a problem that he can't bear anymore, he doesn't say anything and just endures it silently. He doesn't choose to break up until he can't bear it anymore.
This person looks similar, and that person's conditions are also good. I tried each one, but in the end, none of them worked. of.
The biggest problem, in my opinion, is that the biggest character flaw of many people is that they are extremely aggressive inside, but their external manifestations are closed.
This type of partner is, to be honest, the most troublesome type.
The general expression is "You make me very unhappy. Even if my heart has exploded to the extreme, I will never say anything, cooperate with you silently, and then ignore you in a cold war until you can't bear it anymore. The two people had a big fight, and then they broke up."
To be honest, in the blind date market, expressing one's opinions immediately is not a bad thing, on the contrary. It can greatly save each other’s trial and error costs.
Both parties directly reveal their demands to each other in small matters. If both parties can choose a compromise or tolerant approach, then they can continue to get along. If neither can give in, then there is really no need to swallow their anger. Torturing each other.
You have to understand that there is an essential difference between "blind date" and "falling in love":
1. Blind date is more efficient than falling in love, and the results are more important. The goals of both parties are very strong, and they are working hard to develop a long-term partner. If the two parties really have irreconcilable conflicts and do not have time to slowly adjust to each other, it is their responsibility to stop the loss in time.
2. During a blind date, everyone pays attention to each other’s compatibility. Most of the people who come for a blind date are around thirty, and more than 80% of their personalities and habits are difficult to change. Don’t always think about changing the other person, but It’s about finding someone you feel comfortable with from the very beginning.
So, what is a wiser way to date?
First look at the other person’s appearance, Decide whether or not you want to date this person. Then test this person’s character and outlook on life and consider “whether or not you should tentatively invest in him.”
Then look at the attitude given by the other party, which is nothing more than "does he have feelings for you, and are you willing to make efforts to achieve this relationship?" The last thing to look at is his family background, career and education, to further examine "whether this person is a suitable marriage partner for you."
With these three points, if there is a problem in any link, it will actually cause you or the other party to "pa"The inner motivation of "ssing out this marriage".
To be honest, avoiding the wrong person to the greatest extent is often conducive to allowing you to meet your favorite partner.
Just be afraid, you don’t have any opinions of your own, and you won’t correct your own problems. Blind date is like luck. If you meet someone, you try for half a year to a year. This further aggravates your age disadvantage and makes it easier to wear it away. Your expectations for love.
When you really meet the right person and fall in love, you will find that you are no longer in love.
