Soul is a popular social software recently. This social software can not only share daily life but also find a soul mate that suits you based on matches. And because of its anonymous function, some words that cannot be posted on WeChat and Weibo can be recorded on it, so it is more popular among young people. And people who use this software are generally people who want to get out of singles. So from all this it seems that girls on soul should be easy to date.
But when many boys use soul, a social software, they find that some of the girls on it who want to be single are very cold to them even when chatting, let alone dating them. , why is this?
1. Inequality between men and women
In this era, there are more men than women. , indirectly leads to the imbalance in the marriage or dating market. Girls have always been in an advantageous position, so whether it is on Soul or other social software, as long as a girl posts some suggestive pictures and texts, she can gain a lot of private information. Chat and Like. This also leads to many girls facing a large number of communication requests. , don’t have the time and energy to respond sincerely.
Therefore, many boys who don’t know how to show their value will feel that girls on Soul are not only difficult to date, but even very cold, making it difficult to even have a simple conversation.
In fact, this cannot be regarded as the fault of girls. For female accounts on Soul, even if you don't post a single moment or post, you still can't resist a group of licking dogs who work tirelessly and enjoy it... Some of the licking dogs above can't be beaten away with a stick, and they will be happy even if you slap them in the face. The other side of his face is stretched out for you to hit... His attitude is beyond your imagination, and you might not want to reply to him. So, it’s not that the girl on Soul is very cold, she is just cold towards those low-value boys, and you in front of the screen have been tricked, you have to think carefully about whether you are too humble and of too low value.
2. The gap between ideal and reality
@福福西: To be honest, I have been single for more than ten years I’ve been wanting to fall in love for twenty years, but I haven’t written anything about finding a partner right now. One of the purposes of playing Soul is to find someone to talk to, regardless of whether we can be together in the end, and then I just look at others. For a moment, or to see if I can meet some interesting people (and then flirt with x), but reality gave me a painful blow.
I am a student in a university town, so I was matched with a student from a nearby university. , so I matched with the graduate student next door on Soul. I felt that he was quite good at flirting, and my illusion told me that he should be pretty good. We chatted for a day and then met, and then we met and went straight to death. He was very different from what I thought. He was ugly, short, skinny, old, and about the same height as me. He remained polite and even hugged me after watching the movie.Me, compliment me on my good looks. I really wanted to cry at that time, and later I said directly on the Internet that I didn't like him, but he still took the initiative to find me. It's not that I'm beautiful, but that he's too ugly. I'd give him a 4-5, but he should give me a 2 or so. Then something happened and he was blocked. At this point, I no longer want to look for love on soul.
Having said so much, what I want to express is: I represent that part of the people who are eager to try online dating but do not have much confidence in their appearance, do not post selfies in an instant, and are slightly narcissistic in appearance. (Since Jian Guang’s death, I’ve been wondering whether it’s because of my appearance or because he’s too ugly). I don’t feel that I have much capital, but I also want to find a soul with an interesting appearance to be with. I can only say that the feeling that soul gives me is not up to par!
Therefore, instead of asking why the girls on soul are cold and cold, , if you can't get a date, you might as well consider whether you meet the girls' needs, or whether you meet the standards in the girls' minds. If you don’t know where your problem lies, you can add to chat with me privately at any time and let me help you. You can also receive a free chat course.
