Feelings are like knowing whether a person is drinking water or not. As a person who has experienced it, I have summarized some love advice for the majority of boys, hoping to help some boys who are inexperienced in love.

1. No matter how good-looking, sexy, white-skinned and sweet-sounding a girl is, there will still be swimming spots on her belly. Circles, wrinkles on my face, grinding my teeth while sleeping, lying in bed holding potato chips and gnawing on them.

Therefore, you can start with good looks when looking for a partner, but you have to know that it is a consumable product. The person who can be with you in the end is often the one who makes you feel interesting and comfortable when you get along with him. A girl.

2. If a girl needs your long-term pursuit, then you would rather not pursue her and just change her.

I have chased so many girls, and I can tell you clearly: no matter how long the battle line drags on for the truly suitable person, they will basically be determined to be together in two or three months - those who need you to chase them at every turn. People who haven't given you a reply for half a year, often don't want to be with you at all. You are just a spare tire.

3. Face your own desires, be direct in your actions, and don’t be too shy to speak directly.

What nonsense is "I treat you well without expecting anything in return"? Who doesn't know that you are actually greedy for her body?

What nonsense is "I am very happy to get along with you" "No one can see that you like her. So be generous, say what you want directly, and tell the other person frankly that I like you very much and I want to be with you. This will make girls think that this boy is very manly and direct.

4. If the relationship between your girlfriend and your mother is not very good, or there are misunderstandings and prejudices between the two, Then this means you have failed in your duty.

A reliable boyfriend must be an excellent intermediary. What you should do is to mediate the relationship between the two people so that when the day of meeting the parents comes, both of them have a good relationship with each other. Impression - If you can't handle this kind of thing well, how can you get along after you get married?

5. In many relationships, the fundamental reason why the other half likes to settle old scores so much is because the issues that caused you to quarrel before have not been resolved at all.

Don’t just think about getting over it as soon as you have a quarrel, as long as she doesn’t get angry - such a dangerous idea will cause more and more problems between you, and in the end it will be impossible to solve. All that's left is the aftermath of a breakup.

6. You can coax your girlfriend, you can compromise or make concessions, but the other party must realize that you made the compromise.

A girl who is sensible will know that you have made concessions and compromises for the sake of your relationship, but a girl who is ignorant of you will think that as long as you coax her, it means that you have done nothing wrong., it’s all your fault...Do you know the difference between the two?

　7. All The characters and traits are all "buy one, get one free" attributes, you can't take advantage of them all

People with gentle personalities and considerate actions are often not good at making decisions and will be more hesitant; strong abilities kill Decisive people often have a strong sense of autonomy and will not easily listen to your opinions; clingy people often have no sense of security; and independent people may not have such a strong sense of presence in their relationships.. ....You can't take advantage of everything. You can only choose a personality that suits you best and then get rid of those negative influences.

8. After two or three years of dating, you should seriously consider getting married.

I know you can wait and you are not in a hurry, but girls will care more about this. I will care more about the future of the two of you. If you have been getting along smoothly for two or three years, then you should also start thinking about it.

If you still feel that the other person is not a suitable marriage partner, then I think you should consider whether to separate and not waste other people's time.