Frustrated men are naturally possessed of obsessive self-confidence and often overestimate their own attractiveness. However, in fact, in the eyes of girls, they have been excluded from being "boyfriends" for a long time.
Next, let’s learn about the typical characteristics of frustrated men and see if you are a frustrated man.
1. Glassy heart
Behavior that frustrates men: Men who frustrate men are usually very glassy. If a woman does not reply to a message for 5 minutes, she will have various nervous emotions, such as heat. Ants on the pot. I thought about whether my behavior had offended the woman and left a bad impression on her. Then frantically add information and frantically explain himself to the woman. He would even take out his glass heart and show it to women.
For example, if you don’t like me, you can tell me directly. There is no need to deliberately not reply to my messages. If you don’t like me, I will never pester you.
The subtext of the frustrated man: Don’t ignore me, I’m in pain. You are my only goal to get rid of being single. If you don’t reply to me, my DNA will disappear.
The goddess’s reaction: This guy must be mentally ill. I haven’t replied for just 5 minutes, and he’s already worrying about gains and losses to this extent! It shows that this man is unattractive and is an out-and-out frustrated man.
2. Not confident
Behavior that frustrates men: Frustrating men have not been successful in attracting men due to their lack of experience in love. A woman’s experience is that she is in a state of lack of love for a long time. Faced with the opportunity that finally came, he naturally cherished it very much and wished to reveal all his sincerity in front of the goddess.
For example, I have no merits as a person, except that I am honest, sincere, and good to women. My income is not high. If you are willing to stay with me, I will hand over all my salary and will never keep any private money. I will completely listen to you.
Men’s subtext: I have been single and lonely for many years, and finally met a woman. Like a homeless man who has been starving for a month and finally sees delicious food, I am willing to trade everything I have for a meal.
The goddess’s reaction: This is a big cancer. She just met me and doesn’t know me at all. Just based on the first impression, she would kneel on the ground and look up at me. It’s been a long time since I’ve seen a woman. !
3. Trying to win hearts through confession
Behavior that frustrates men: Frustrating men due to lack of correct Love knowledge: when you meet the goddess you like, the only way you can think of is to confess your feelings, especially when you feel that there are other potential competitors. They don’t know how to make good use of their own shining points to build attraction
, let alone please women. He will only express his feelings simply and rudely, trying to win the favor of women through sincerity.
For example, I have liked you since the first time I saw you. I am willing to treat you well in this life, as long as you can accept it.Accept me, I am willing to go through fire and water for you.
The subtext of frustrated men: I have no choice but to throw my sincerity in front of you and resign myself to fate! If I don’t confess, others will definitely take the lead!
Goddess’s Response: I don’t see any advantages or specialties in you. I don't have any "feelings" for you at all. You come over to me and confess your love to me, but I have no feelings for you, so I can only reject you. If I accept it, it will be like signing a contract of sale. I won’t sign it!
4. Consistent setbacks both internally and externally
Frustration of male behavior: Frustration is deep in the bones, whether it is appearance or the whole behavioral clues of the person (eyes, body, tone). The frustrated man is accustomed to a life without a sense of existence. He is afraid of being the center of attention, so he only dares to choose relatively conservative and outdated clothes so that others will not notice him. Frustrated men are usually very unconfident, and their faces come from their hearts. An unconfident person cannot deceive others based on behavioral clues.
The subtext of defeating men: I don’t like publicity and like to be low-key. Those men who dress gorgeously and speak and act confidently are scumbags and scoundrels. My goddess must be able to understand this, I am the sincere man.
The goddess’s reaction: This man didn’t even need to speak. I could feel his breath even as she sat in the corner. That kind of shabby clothes, that kind of unconfident eyes and tone, he is undoubtedly a frustrated man. I have to stay away from him to prevent this guy from coming over to disgust me!
5. Only asking for
The behavior of frustrated men: When a frustrated man meets the goddess he likes, he doesn’t know how to make the woman favor him. But he couldn't help but want to talk to the goddess. If he didn't talk, he would never have a chance. So there was a classic scene of embarrassment and overturning.
For example, are you there? What are you doing? Have you slept? Have you eaten? Good morning, good night, drink more hot water.
The subtext of the frustrated man: If I care about her so much and care about her, my goddess will definitely wake up, and she will find that I am the only one in the world who truly loves her.
The goddess’s reaction: Picked up the phone, it’s this guy again! I have nothing to say and insists on having an awkward chat with me. The key is, when I reply to him, he will only say: Oh! And then continue to find topics to chat with me awkwardly! It really annoys me!
To attract girls, you need to put your own Demonstrate value, even if you copy some routine love words to make a woman smile, it is considered to have provided value. To gain a sense of presence without nourishment and chatting just for the sake of chatting will only continue to consume a woman’s goodwill towards you.