Generally speaking, men and women who meet on a blind date should confirm their relationship within three months, otherwise the two parties are likely to be just ordinary friends. If you want to stand out in the blind date market, you will definitely not be able to do it without some love skills. So what are the love skills for blind dates?
1. Be in a happy mood before going on a blind date
Before going on a blind date, try to find two happy things to make yourself feel high. As the saying goes, girls who love to smile will not have bad luck, so smiling is a big weapon for you. Put on light makeup, don't deliberately design your hair and clothing, and try to be neat and elegant.
2. Dress simply and comfortably
For girls, it is recommended to wear something more feminine, preferably A skirt or sweater is closer to the ideal woman in a man's mind. The principle is to be clean and comfortable to look at. Unobtrusive warm colors are best and the design should be more western-style. You can also spray some perfume appropriately, as long as it is light, to leave a pleasant impression.
3. Avoid embarrassment
When looking for topics, it is best to use some familiar and relaxed topics, such as talking about movies, books, websites, etc. If you are accompanied by your parents, be as polite as you can be, and at the same time say with emotion: "Hello, uncle! Hello, aunt!" and other polite words to leave a good impression on the other party.
4. Be brave and take the initiative
Men don’t be afraid that your initiative will offend her. If you don’t take the initiative, she won’t take the initiative either, and she will slowly fade away. In particular, the relationship between a man and a woman on a blind date is inherently fragile. If you don't take the initiative and strike while the iron is hot, it is easy to lose the chance and miss the marriage.
5. A lot of contact and contact in the first two weeks is the basis
After the blind date, you should have as many contacts as possible Get in touch with the other person, and communicate through text messages and the Internet as frequently as possible, preferably every day. But don’t talk about too in-depth topics at this time. Also, if you just met someone, you can text them every day, but don’t make phone calls every day. Just make one call every two or three days.
In addition, when you have time, invite the other person out to meet, drink tea, chat, watch movies, and sometimes buy small gifts for the other person when you meet, such as dolls, flowers, etc. But when sending flowers, you should pay attention to the type and quantity of flowers. Different flowers have different meanings.
6. Determine the first feeling
For blind dates, you can see the person intuitively, whether it is appearance, temperament, or conversation. Although there are many things that can be concealed, there are many things that cannot be concealed. You can determine your feelings for him from the communication between you. If you are from the Appearance Association, then you should filter it first. If it doesn’t work, go to the next one. Only after confirming the first feeling can you continue.It is necessary, otherwise it is very likely to be a waste of each other's time. In fact, everyone going out on a blind date is not just for fun.
7. Confess boldly
If you are really sure that you like her and want to spend this life with her, You can boldly confess your love and speak out loud. No matter what her reaction is, at least you have given yourself a chance, and at least you will not regret your cowardice in the future.
