Blind date is a traditional way of marriage and love, but why do blind dates always fail? Why is the success rate of blind dates low? This is a question that many people will think about. This issue will be discussed below from several aspects.
1. Lack of authenticity
During the blind date process, many people will deliberately hide their shortcomings and exaggerate their advantages. Although this can leave a good impression on the other party in a short period of time, it will be difficult to maintain in the long run. When your true self is discovered by the other party, it can easily lead to a breakdown in the relationship.
Some people will also use beauty filters, photo editing software and other means to change their appearance, making the other party dissatisfied with their appearance. Appearance is misleading. When they meet for real, the other party may feel disappointed, which in turn affects the emotional development of both parties.
2. Poor communication
During a blind date, communication between both parties is very important. However, due to reasons such as nervousness and restraint, many people are unable to express their thoughts and feelings fluently during blind dates. This leads to inaccurate information transmission and even misunderstandings.
Some people are too conservative in blind dates and dare not take the initiative to express their wishes and needs. In this way, it is difficult for the other party to truly understand their inner thoughts and meet the other party's expectations. Therefore, poor communication has become an important reason for the low success rate of blind dates.
3. Lack of common interests
When dating, both parties can often only understand each other through brief communication. If two people do not have common interests and hobbies, even if they have a good impression when they first meet, it will be difficult to maintain the relationship in the long run.
Common interests and hobbies can increase topics and interactions between the two parties, and promote mutual understanding and communication. The lack of common interests will lead to the inability of both parties to find common ground, resulting in feelings of alienation and boredom.
4. Unsuitable family background
In blind dates, family background is also an important consideration. If the family backgrounds of two people are too different, for example, one is from a rural area and the other is from an urban area, then it will be difficult to resonate during the blind date.
Inappropriate family backgrounds may lead to large differences in values, living habits, etc. between the two parties, thereby affecting each other's emotional development. Therefore, it is also very important to consider the match of family background when going on a blind date.
5. Lack of time and patience
Dating requires time and patience. Some people hope that they can find their ideal partner through a blind date, but in fact, this is rarely the case. In most cases, blind dates require multiple attempts and conversations before you find the right person.
However, modern society is fast-paced, and many people are eager for quick success and instant benefits when it comes to dating. They lack the patience to understand each other,There isn’t enough time to develop relationships either. In this way, even if you have a good feeling, it will be difficult for the relationship to develop further.
To sum up, there are many reasons why blind dates are always unsuccessful and the success rate of blind dates is low. Lack of authenticity, poor communication, lack of common interests, inappropriate family backgrounds, and lack of time and patience are all significant factors that contribute to this problem. Only by fully recognizing these problems and solving them during the blind date can the success rate of the blind date be improved.
