Question:

A friend introduced a girl to her before. After chatting on WeChat, we made an appointment to meet for dinner. After I arrived, she said she would wait at home to get the keys to her mother, and she waited for more than an hour before she arrived. Then it was time to order. I asked her if there was anything she wanted to eat. She said it’s okay, so I ordered it myself, and then gave her the menu, but she still didn’t order.

She was relatively silent throughout the meal. I only answered one question when I asked her. After finishing the meal, she asked me if I wanted to go somewhere else. I said, is there anything you want to go to? She said she wanted to go home, and then I sent her home. When I got home, I sent her a WeChat message asking her if she was home? She didn’t reply to my message, and the next day I saw that she had deleted me. I want to ask the girl on a blind date why she deletes the boy’s WeChat account, so she doesn’t just delete me without any reason!

Answer;

Since it is a blind date girl introduced by a friend, she should have known about your situation before I understand that she may not be satisfied with your situation after meeting, so she will be relatively cold throughout the meeting.

In fact, before you met, I felt that this blind date girl didn’t respect you very much. If she wants to give the key to her mother, it may be an excuse. She doesn't even show the most basic respect, and it's clear that she doesn't take you seriously. If you have something to do that day, you can make an appointment another day, or if you go to meet her for dinner near her home, you can chat while eating and waiting for her mother (because I don’t know how far away you live, so I just casually mentioned a possibility).

You were really patient in waiting for her for more than an hour, and you didn’t show any impatience after meeting her. You felt that you valued her and were very polite. Since you feel that she is not very satisfied with you at first sight, then I think you may indeed have keen observation and grasp the key points. When I asked her to order food, she said it was casual, and she didn't order from the menu, which made it clear that she had no interest in eating with you, and she had no desire to communicate, which meant that she didn't want to have another time with you.

After dinner, she asks you where to go. Maybe she has no interest in you, but if your next arrangement makes her feel that it is in line with her psychological expectations, maybe she will agree to go with you. After all, Come all come. But when you said you had no arrangements, she felt that you were boring and not her type, so she was anxious to go home.

Of course, your experience of meeting and eating this time is not good either. This is a very subtle feeling. The other person is lazy and indifferent to you, which makes you not interested, so you say goodbye after eating. This shows that both of them have a clear mind and know that there is no chance. This is good. After seeing each other for dinner, they are willing to give up and say goodbye. Then they can settle down and find another partner.

Finally, you asked her if she was home, and she didn’t even reply politely, nor did she give your friend face. Maybe she blamed your classmate for introducing you to her. It's not that you can't do it well, it's that we don't like each other either. some peopleI just don't like to give you a happy word, I have to let others figure it out on their own. If this happens, you don’t have to worry about it, just move on to the next one.