There is a very strange phenomenon now. There are many single boys around us, and there are also many single girls, and they all want to be single. Girls will definitely not take the initiative, but the strange thing is that boys will not take the initiative to pursue girls. Do you know why?
Why do boys no longer want to chase girls?
1. The cost of falling in love for boys is too high
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I am a college senior. I am 26 years old. I have no house or car. However, I am very down-to-earth and hard-working. I want to pursue a girl of the same age. Do you think this girl will agree? Many single boys agree that only when I have a house, a car, and money can I be qualified to fall in love and get married. But many single girls think that when I own a house, I won’t need to get married. The reality is that boys who actively pursue girls at the age of 25 usually have the capital to pay off their mortgage and car loans. After the age of 25, boys with average looks and average incomes will inevitably think about houses and cars before chasing a girl.
Yes, women can always be girls, but men cannot be teenagers forever. When many girls are unhappy at work, they will say, ah, I quit, the worst is to find someone right. The good man got married and had children, but there has never been a man who could just quit when he said he didn't want to do his job, and then find a wife to be a full-time husband. When it comes to marriage, girls have a way out, but men don't. Men can only move forward.
2. It is thankless for boys to chase girls
There is a very common phenomenon nowadays. Boys are chasing girls. girl. When I was young, if I was good at chatting, girls would call me a veteran, or even a scumbag. Boys wouldn’t know how to chat, and they would be criticized for being too straight, being one-sided, and being honest. Then I would give them When he sends out good guy cards, many girls will ask why boys nowadays don’t want to chase girls anymore. It’s not good to be too straight, and it’s not good to be too flirty. He’s too good to girls, so he doesn’t care, but he’s not good to girls, and they say don’t worry. .
In the past, when boys took the initiative, we said she was affectionate and dedicated, but now boys take the initiative. We say he is a licker and has lost all his dignity. A boy tries his best to be nice to a girl. Instead of being grateful, the girl treats him as a spare tire. What's more, he uses him as a cash machine. Such a thing is... It happens to most of us, how can you let boys dare to take the initiative?
3. Girls have high requirements for finding boyfriends
After many boys enter the society, he understands , as for himself, in fact, he is quite ordinary. He just needs a girl to find a partner. He doesn’t understand many girls. They are also 1.8 meters tall, have a gentle personality, and are domineering., it also depends on whether you have a house and a car, you must be motivated, career-minded, be good to girls, don’t smoke or drink, be smart, etc. The reality is that most boys are young and have their own advantages and disadvantages. However, what many girls want does not match what they currently have. Such a social environment has undoubtedly made many boys look down upon them. Being silent makes them dare not take the initiative to pursue the girl they are interested in.
So I always say, boys from ordinary backgrounds, you can use your time and energy on yourself to improve yourself, whether it is your external image or the way you get along with girls. Go study, this is the fastest way for you to catch up with girls.
