In the current environment where there are more men than women, to a certain extent, women have higher bargaining power. Therefore, many boys feel that chasing girls is to please them, and in the end, chasing becomes A licking dog.
Of course, we are only talking about a macro-level phenomenon, there are also micro-levels, and we also have specific personal reasons. Didn't talk about it.
In fact, when it comes to individuals, there is one thing that seems abnormal but is very easy to understand - for most people, choosing the dog licking mode may actually be something they consciously and voluntarily choose: because dog licking There is no threshold, no technical content required, just lick it directly.
This kind of thing is so simple, who doesn’t know how to do it?
To put it bluntly, it’s just saying hello to each other good morning and good night every day, or buying each other a I pile up things and deliver them every day in the hope that the other party will respond. Otherwise, I just act like an errand boy and help the other party with everything they say.
For such things, those who are unwilling to put more thought into pursuing a girl can only do this simple physical repetitive work - most people actually do not think about it when pursuing a girl. Yes, they will easily pay the price for strategic laziness: being "nice" to others without knowing anything, but not getting a response from the other party, what is it if it's not a licker?
And I used to have the simplest way to judge: If I chat with this boy and don’t feel his independent thinking and attitude in daily life, I will I didn’t feel any strengths or advantages. When I asked him what he knew about the girl, he knew nothing about the girl’s hobbies and habits...
I basically knew the boy without even thinking about it. When you pursue this girl, you will become a bitch.
The reason is too simple: you don’t have any attraction in yourself, and you don’t know how to attract that girl. For you, other than being a bitch, is there anything else you can do to pursue that girl? Is there any other way to attract a girl?
Everyone knows that to attract a girl, you need to have excellent conditions and be able to show the qualities that will make that girl's heart flutter. However, many people are not even willing to make this effort. So, In fact, they can only make more efforts in the pursuit process, put in more hard work and more care.
Why don’t I pity the licking dogs, because they seem to be pitiful but they are actually the laziest group of people. They have done nothing and are just waiting for the other person to be moved by them and be with them—— There is no technical content at all, why should we feel sorry for them?
Therefore, this is why weNow I feel that Chinese boys are so humble when it comes to love:
From a macro perspective, most of the people who speak out and have influence in public opinion are actually not as strong in overall quality and personal independence as we think. They are promoting the pursuit model of boys because they have bargaining power and their butt determines their head.
On a micro level, boys do not work hard to improve their own value and are in a state of strategic laziness emotionally. As a result, they can only use the most clumsy and unskilled way of licking the dog to obtain it. A girl's heart.
