Why do some boys always have girlfriends, while some boys can never find a girlfriend? Through observation, we found that some boys who have never been able to find a girlfriend generally have the following characteristics. Let’s take a look at the reasons why boys are single:

Why some boys can never find a girlfriend

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First, unable to speak

Think about whether there is such a person around you? No one was willing to talk to him. It was quite fun for everyone to chat together. As soon as he arrived, everyone turned around and went about their own business - it was quiet. Also, as soon as you open your mouth to speak, you can choke the other person to death with one sentence and make the other person angry all of a sudden. This is not the most terrifying thing. The most terrifying thing is that he himself does not realize that he has hurt others.

It is said that the speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention.

There is a saying that the higher the social status of a person, the more comfortable he or she is when speaking. In fact, this is what is called being able to speak.

Second, unable to control one's emotions

Some brothers tend to get angry and hysterical when something happens, especially It's in terms of emotions. If there is a situation like girls letting go in love, etc. This is when we need to show our gentlemanly side. But you still have to express your attitude, because it’s impossible to have no temper at all.

We should be a little angry and have a cold attitude. Then when the girl apologizes, give yourself a step down and give her a step down. This not only shows his gentlemanly demeanor, but also expresses his attitude. He is not a loser who can just let his pigeons go.

Third, over-reliance on others and no self

Most people who lack emotional education and experience are like this. Finally, I fell in love and met a woman. I feel that if I have to marry her in this life, I can’t live without her. What happened next was control, entanglement, cell phone checking, cold war, and breakup. If you treat her like the whole world, you will lose everything.

Because true love is when two people make progress together and look forward together. Don't dwell on the past, trust and give the other party a certain amount of space.

Fourth, being too sensitive and afraid of being hurt

In fact, everything everyone does is his own choice. This is the mentality of the victim and the responsible person.

Victim: It’s always someone else’s fault. Responsible person: This is my choice and I should be responsible.

Fifth, emotional kidnapping, use your own standards to demand the other party

I am so good to you, Why don't you like me? ——This is a typical emotional kidnapping. If you are good to her, what does it have to do with her? Most boys will think that I only need to be particularly nice to girls, if I obey my words, girls should like me.

In fact, they ignored one thing. That is, any girl will choose an excellent boy. This is called value equivalence in love science. It's also what we say as the old saying goes.

Sixth, I don’t know what girls want

Girls and boys have different educational backgrounds due to their different genders. As well as the difference in growth experience, male and female students think about problems differently. To put it simply:

Boys: If you are good to me, I will be good to you. We are good buddies. If I treat you well, you should like me.

Girl: If you are good to me, that is your business. Who I treat well is my business.