In fact, both boys and girls care about the first time, and girls will definitely care more about it. What should I do if a girl asks me if I want her for the first time?
1. The psychology of girls asking for the first time
Many boys don’t know that all the questions girls ask related to the “first time” are about “how do you plan for each other’s future?” "A kind of temptation. When asking you if you want her for the first time, women are in an ambivalent position.
Emotionally, she likes you, she wants to have fun with you, and wants to be intimate with you; if she didn't like you, she wouldn't ask this question at all.
Rationally, she doesn’t know how far you can go in the future, and she’s not sure how sincere you are to her, so she doesn’t dare to give herself to you easily.
In this case, pretending to be a saint and saying "I don't want to" is obviously a shark-like behavior. This will make her question her own attractiveness and even your feelings for her. So it must be "want", but you can't just say "want". So what to do?
2. A girl asked me if I wanted to do it for her first time
Isn’t she conflicted? , then you are also conflicted. You have to "pay attention" and "don't care" at the same time.
"Attach importance to" means "I like you", "You are very attractive" and "I also want to have everything about you".
"It doesn't matter" means "If you don't want to give it the first time, then we won't do it." "Whenever you think it's okay, then we will do it." "If you want to do it after marriage, then we will do it." Leave it until after marriage.” It not only expresses one's attitude, but also returns the right of choice to the other party. You need to be down-to-earth and show off your sincerity. A core concept runs through the whole process: "It is her freedom to do it or not."
If you are not very fluent in your speech, then explain it in one or two sentences. Don't get carried away with the long and sensational talk, this thing is going to lose its price. The less you say, the more powerful you are. When you don't care about gains and losses, you are the most manly. If you're someone like me who's more capable of fooling around, you can play freely.
Is it over like this? Of course not. Think about it for yourself, there are some men who don’t want to push someone down. In the relationship between men and women, never use words to promote the relationship, but use actions. There is always a brother who likes to stand tall and ask others:
"Can I hold your hand?"
"Can I hug you?"
" Can I kiss you?”
You feel that the relationship between the two of you is in place and the time is right. Find a reason to travel together/the dormitory is closed/we have no place to stay when we travel to a different place. "Get a standard room", "I will never touch you", "I'll just hug you and do nothing". Sounds cliche? That's because it actually works.
I have actually seen someone keep saying, "That's something you can't do before marriage," and then you lie down on the bed, hugging someone with your arms, and you can't control yourself when the addiction starts. I have actually seen it: the first love lasted for three years, and the relationship lasted; the breakup lasted two months, and the old man lost his virginity. The atmosphere is very important in this matter, and confusion and infatuation are a key prerequisite for success.
At this time, you said, isn’t this a broken promise? Didn't you agree to stay with me until you get married? Is it stupid? If she really refuses, will she let you succeed?
The relationship between a man and a woman is consensual. But many women are unwilling to bear the negative consequences this may bring. Therefore, if you want to advance the relationship, then you need to address her concerns. How to solve it? It's up to you to be the "bad guy" who takes advantage of everything.
