Fish in a relationship means a spare tire. If you are chasing a girl, if you find that you are a fish in the other party's pond, you need to stop your losses in time. So how to judge whether you are being fished by a girl?
Next, I will teach you how to identify whether you are being fished through some of the behaviors of girls.
1. Never respond positively to her emotional status
This method of raising fish is actually relatively It's relatively easy to identify. Maybe she will intentionally or unintentionally send you a signal that she is single when she comes into contact with you. She will also take the initiative to chat with you from time to time, and sometimes even say ambiguous words.
Your heart may start to surge at this time, but in fact, you must keep your little eyes open at this time!
Just because she takes the initiative to find you does not necessarily mean that she likes you. , don't put yourself into the role of someone's boyfriend too early. Maybe the person is looking for you because he is empty, lonely and cold. It just so happens that you are willing to be someone else's emotional trash can, so let's talk to you.
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If she is raising fish, then you want to inquire about her relationship status, sorry, but you can’t. What follows are lame excuses such as "He is my best friend", "He and I are good friends", "He is my college classmate", "We have known each other since we were kids".
For these girls who never respond positively to whether they are single or in love, you must not make things more difficult for yourself. You already have the good person card in your hand, and it is up to you to get it.
2. Endless hot and cold, indifferent attitude towards you
This method of raising fish is It has reached the point of proficiency, and this fish is tightly controlled by them.
When you think she has it within easy reach, she kicks you away, and when you are ready to give up, she gives you a little sweetener.
Generally speaking, it is not easy for this kind of girl to chat with you. She is very sexy with you, you are attracted to her, and then when you are full of joy and ready to express your feelings to her, she is playing with you. Tug of war.
And if you stop looking for her, she will take the initiative to look for you again in a few days, and this situation will repeat indefinitely.
Then you start to direct one drama after another in your mind, "Does she like me or not? Should I give her a small gift? Should I ask her out for a meal?" ”
When your emotions are completely affected by her, then you are being manipulated.
3. Frequently update your circle of friends during the period of contact with you
This fish farming method is relatively obscure and may require careful analysis to come up with it.
There are three main categories:
The first category is that when I am in contact with you, I often update some posts in the circle of friends that seem to be literary and artistic but are actually pretentious, and put bait to the fish in her fish pond. < /p>
For example, "I have been to the top of the mountain and walked through the trough, but I can't reach your heart", "Reading alone, traveling alone, and dying alone", and also accompanied by her photos.
At this time, some friends consciously stepped into the role, wow, this is what I was sent, and my little heart was beating fast.
I instantly felt that she was the one I wanted. The saved princess, but the fact is that you are not someone else’s prince
The second category is that the circle of friends updates their orders every now and then. Full-body photos of people, each one bright and beautiful, and some friends can’t hold back their excitement and like and comment on them. In fact, it’s very possible that these photos of hers were taken by someone else, but you have no idea. I don’t know.
The third type often publishes some dog-licking chat records with the text “Stay away from boys like this, okay?” Some friends may come up to comfort them at this time. Actually, if you think about it carefully, there is something wrong.
You taste it carefully. The lessons learned from the past are so close, why do we have to follow the same path?
To sum up, that is. During the period of contact with you, I posted in this circle of friends, but it was of no use to you. At this time, you have probably been raised as a fish. I just want to add a few new members to this fish pond. < /p>
