One of the strange things about falling in love is that when you chase a girl, the girl is the goddess in your heart; when you become the girl's boyfriend, the girlfriend turns into a "girlfriend" and is uncooperative. Heaven makes the earth make the air!
The essence of what a girlfriend does is a kind of control. It is a kind of alternative dominance in love relationships, so it manifests as act out, using inappropriate ways (actions) to vent negative emotions in the heart.
There are usually two reasons: she lacks the mature ability to deal with emotions; the superficial "acting" is a substitute for more unexpressable emotions.
No matter what the reason for your girlfriend’s “acting” is, just seeing the surface cannot effectively promote communication; seeing and dealing with deep-seated emotions can truly encourage your girlfriend to change the way she communicates and solve problems.
1. Don’t let your girlfriend act like this
In fact, many girls are not so acting before they fall in love. (It’s true that girls all have some tricks up their sleeves), and then the relationship begins. Seeing the boy responding to her every request, she starts to feel pampered and arrogant. Then, when a boy finally gets a girlfriend, of course he is not willing to blame her, so he continues to spoil her. Then the girlfriend becomes more and more domineering, and the boy can't stand it, but because he likes to continue to tolerate it and not get angry, he continues to spoil her. In the end, the girlfriend is so confused because of trivial things, and if the boy doesn't continue to spoil her, he will break up (says Maybe they will really break up). Therefore, if you don't want your girlfriend to do this, the best way is to stop her habit from the beginning.
2. Maintain attention to your girlfriend
In fact, many times girlfriends are not very coquettish. It's because of some misunderstandings of boys' attitudes. There are probably two things why a girlfriend makes a mistake: (1) You don't love her anymore
(2) You don't love her as much as before.
For example, when you first fall in love, you will want to be with her all the time and rack your brains to date her. As a result, as the relationship lasts for a long time, you become addicted to games and let her play by herself. At the beginning, you would feel distressed for a long time if she sheds a tear, but as time goes by, you would just treat her coldly if she breaks up with you.
At first you want to bring the best things in the world to her, but over time you feel distressed even if you want to buy her a meal... Your inconsistent behavior can easily make girls Misunderstanding that you don't love her anymore. Through constant making and going back and forth, she feels that you still love her and that you still care about her. Therefore, if you want your girlfriend to stop cheating, the most important thing is for a boy to always pay attention to his girlfriend's feelings and not think that he can ignore them after being in a relationship for a long time.
3. FranknessTreating each other
Since you feel that your girlfriend is being domineering and it is difficult for you to handle and makes you feel uncomfortable, why don’t you tell your girlfriend your true inner feelings? Also let your girlfriend tell you why. Do this. If two people truly love each other, they will consider each other and give in to each other. If your girlfriend is still acting as usual and doesn't pay attention to your feelings, it may be that she doesn't love you. She is happy when you are happy, but she doesn't care at all if you are unhappy. It is not a pity to break up with such a girlfriend.
