Do you dare to chase a girl you like? All men dare to say that they dare, but the problem is that many boys chase girls, but because they pursue them in incorrect ways, the results of chasing girls are naturally not ideal. Now let’s talk about how boys can catch the girl they like?
1. From ordinary friends to good feelings
I believe that since you are already discussing chasing girls, then by default you are already ordinary friends. After you have added WeChat or QQ, the first thing you need to do to chase a girl is to gain her favor. The sources of goodwill are mainly divided into two parts:
1. Love will last for a long time
Needless to say, as time goes by, you will become more and more familiar with each other, and you may become in love for a long time. , or maybe not. It depends on the person. Generally speaking, most people are in line with the characteristics of long-lasting love.
2. Display of advantages (showing off)
On WeChat, in Moments, and in real life , please show your advantages as much as possible. Now that you are already friends, have more contact and show off your strengths in the process. Your purpose at this stage is very simple, which is to make girls have a basic good impression of you. All routines and techniques are based on a certain good impression. If a girl has a good impression of you, it is called flirting with you. If you don't like it, that's called harassment.
You must be calm at this stage. They are friends on the surface and show off secretly. Once you find that the girl feels a little different about you and looks at you a little differently, then you can enter the next stage. .
2. Assume that you chase girls
When doing questions, we often use conditions to get the conclusion. On the contrary, we first assume the conclusion and then speculate on the conditions. It's very simple, just say you put yourself in that "position to be chased." Many boys like to actively pursue girls. This is actually very wrong. Men should have their own attitude and put themselves in the position of the "giver".
Specific formula: "I want to help you XXX" is replaced by "I want me to help you XXX again"
For example, originally it was a boy who wanted to ask a girl out to play. If you are chasing, you can say the other way around: "You want me to go shopping with you again." You know this feeling? Just being the "giver" makes the girl feel that you are not easy to get. In this way, the atmosphere will naturally become... Ambiguous, and even girls start chasing you in reverse.
Many boys say that they dare not say this, for fear of losing girls and for fear that girls will not like you. I have said this when a girl likes you. Just try to improve the relationship. If you don't do this, your relationship will always stagnate. This is actually a way to improve relationships, but of course there is a risk of rejection. It doesn't matter if you are rejected, then go back to the friend stage and continue to attract, letGirls love what you do.
3. Try physical contact with girls
If the girl doesn’t reject your verbal ambiguity, she can also make an appointment. At this time, you can try physical contact. Of course, touching a girl when she likes you is called taking the initiative, and touching a girl when she doesn't like you is called sexual harassment, so doing the right thing at the right time is really important.
In fact, it is not so much chasing girls, but showing your advantages to girls and letting her be attracted to you. Then you two It is natural for individuals to come together, and there is no one chasing whom.
