Many people feel that they have nothing to worry about after getting married, but in fact, marriage also needs to be maintained, and not everything can be said casually. Some words will hurt someone's heart if you say them. These three words that should never be said in marriage must not be said easily.

1. Words that belittle the other person

No one wants to listen to their partner telling themselves that you are not good enough. If you're not good enough, you'll be a step above me if you're with me.

In this case, it will only continue to arouse the other party's disgust for this marriage.

p> Even if lovers encounter problems or are unhappy in life, they should not use sarcastic and disgusting words to accuse and belittle the other person.

When there are conflicts between husband and wife, the sentence "I need you" will always sound better than "You are so useless".

2. Accusing the other person’s family of angry words

Marriage is usually not just a matter of two people, it is inevitable It would involve each other's families.

Especially between elders and juniors, it is impossible to always agree on the same opinion.

There will always be times when disagreements and conflicts arise. In this case, whose family members will take the initiative to mediate.

If you have problems, solve them; if you have problems, communicate well. Never blame your significant other's parents or family behind your back.

Parents are one of the most important people in the first half of our lives, or even in our lives.

So when you accuse the other person’s family, you are undoubtedly slapping the other person in the face, and the discord between husband and wife will become wider.

Certain concepts and habits of the elders have become deeply ingrained.

We don’t have to forcefully convince them, but we should be as tolerant as possible while maintaining our own principles.

3. Harsh words to give up on marriage

When quarreling, some people often get carried away with their emotions. Will talk about divorce.

The purpose is to threaten the other party into bowing. But I have to tell you a cruel reality, that is, all the harsh words you say when you are emotionally excited will leave a deep mark on the other person's heart.

You are the speaker without intention, but he is the listener with intention, even if you reconcile later.

These hurtful words will also have a certain impact on him.

There is a saying that if you can’t bear it anymore, you don’t need to bear it anymore.

When you say time and time again that you want a divorce or give up your marriage, the other party will gradually acquiesce.

You don’t love her anymore, and you don’t need this family anymore. When the other person’s resentment accumulates to a certain level, the end of the marriage is not far away.